My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke my heart today

He dumped me… Idk what to do…

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Sending you hugs… :hugs:

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I’m so sorry. What a crappy time for it too! We will be here for you.

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I’m sorry. That sucks. Are you safe?

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oh I am so saddened to hear of your break up…I hope you fair o k.

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That’s terrible. I’m so sorry. I hope your broken heart heals fast.

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There is only one thing to do. Learn. Learn of the errors, either by him or you! Reconfigure your mistakes and learn by them. Your next relationship will be better for it. This is an end, but also the pre-beginnings of something anew. Your thoughts create reality, so which reality will you create?

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Thank u everyone for ur support! Ill be stayin with my family for the rest of the week, it really hurts, u know…to go so long and have it thrown in ur face… His reasons r i can find better and he has a bad feeling… What kinda BS is that!

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there’s always the possibility he’s not telling you everything…like another woman…but don’t let that fret your pretty head. he’s not worth it.

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@itsme

This may hurt, now, but, just think of how much worse it would be later down the line.

When one of us hurts, we all hurt.

Is there anything specific you’d like to talk about?

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I’m sorry you’re feeling heart broken.

But that’s good to hear you’ll be staying with family.

Two and a half years is a long time to be with someone.

Take care. :sunflower:

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“Better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all.”

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It hurts so much! Idk, i dont wanna find someone else… I love him, how do u get over love?

Time. A long term relationship ending will cause a person to experience at least some of the 5 stages of grief. You may go through stages of missing him, anger, and be sad, and all of that’s healthy.

In time you’ll move on. It doesnt seem like it right now, but you’ll find someone who loves and appreciates you.

Give yourself time to grieve. I know the feeling of wanting to feel better now, but allow yourself feel. When the feelings get to be too much do something to distract yourself.

Most importantly remember that you are so valuable. Be kind to yourself. We are here for support.

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Sorry to hear that. Time will heal everything. May be you will find a better one soon.

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Of course, he may come back, too. The future’s not ours to see.

You dont just get over loving someone honey. You love him and will for a long while. Take this time to focus on yourself and live yourself as much as you love him.

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