My mum doesn’t want him to spend money on getting a taxi home, so she drives him there and sometimes back. I tried to tell her, but what else can I do.
Yeah. Let him get on with it. If your like my brother - your just gonna have a row over it.
Nope.
She is a big part of the problem. Suggest telling her to join Al-Anon.
Yes it never ends well when you try to help.
No I meant that sarcastically. But not trying to be rude when I said that. Sorry It gets overwhelming sometimes. I will suggest it but she won’t listen. all I can do is be there for her.
Yeah I was going to suggest Al-Anon as well
He tried to kick me out of my mums house cos I’m the problem. I was going on holiday the day after. completely ruined things for me.
Maybe I should join al-anon?
Yes, you and your Mom should seriously consider going
I’m sorry guys, everything is just feel overwhelming today. Everything at once.
Stress is a killer, especially for those of us struggling with mental illness
Take care of yourself before you burn yourself out
The only way to handle a narcissist is by ignoring them/ minimum interactions
Also, have a talk with your Mom about you and her joining Al-Anon
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