Well, if you didn’t do anything to scare her off, then she is a sucky friend. Just ignore her!
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I would ignore it. If a “friend” just dropped you like that, when you were struggling so much with mental illness (or anything else), they are not really your friend. True friends take care of each other, through the good times and the bad times.
That’s just my view of it, though. 
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Does it come down to treating her how she treated you vs. treating her how you would like to have been treated by her when reaching out to say you miss each other?
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IDK, that was pretty cruel and heartless of her to end a close friendship because of your mental illness. It seems unforgivable, are you sure you were as close as you thought? On one hand, ignoring her would be the easiest thing to do and would be the path of least resistance. But on the other hand, there would be some satisfaction in telling her you moved on and don’t need (or want) her as a friend anymore. I guess contacting her to tell her you don’t want to be friends would be a form of revenge, if revenge is what you want.
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I don’t really want revenge. I don’t want to treat her as she treated me. There was a lot that went on before she decided that it was too much to continue being friends.
She had me teach her some things and then took some jobs I had said I was going for, before I applied.
Took credit for a screen play I wrote and took the payment. This was a gig from a mutual friend. I didn’t tell the friend that I wrote it hecause I knew D was having some issues and needed the cash.
There’s more and the more I look back the more it seems she was just using me.
That is a shitty realization.
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Time for you to ghost her!
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Then what would be the point of contacting here in any way? Ask it is now, the situation is taken care of and you have no contact, that seems to be the best thing. Why would you need to talk to her again?
I didn’t ask if I should initiate contact. She contacted me.
And I’d forgotten those things. It’s just coming back to me the more I’ve thought about it.
I deleted her fb friend request. If she wants to hear from me her next message better be an apology.
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I meant responding to her.
Oh. Yeah. Decided it’s not worth it.
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Yolo as they say. Go for it
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If you’re not desperate, I would tell her to ■■■■ off
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Most people don’t change too much and tbh do a lot of impulsive clicking on Facebook. She probably put in a quarter of the thoughts about you that you are giving about her. Sometimes people will try to friend me on Facebook, and I’m like, didn’t you literally hate me 10 years ago? Cause I’m pretty sure I at least still hate you…….social media is weird.
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sounds like a bad person really…sorry you have to sort all this out and hope you decide what to do.
I’m so glad you decided to ignore her. Stealing your work? Taking jobs you wanted? Ghosting you? Definitely not worth your time! Not even if she apologizes
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