I might go down that route.
But I have no idea.
The problem is STDs because I don’t like condoms. They have chemicals on them that irritate my vagina.
Maybe not a good idea actually. Because people might get attached.
But some might not.
Very risky for a few reasons.
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Casual sex was never fun/enjoyable for me honestly
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As a woman you could get endless hook ups on Tinder. But I have a feeling you would regret it.
Maybe try a dating app like hinge to find Mr Right?
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Need good friends and good parties to have casual sex. I think you need like overarching communities. It takes a village
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If your allergic to condoms I would refrain from sex you might get something Ajax won’t take off lol
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I’m worried about stis especially hiv and hepatitis.
But yes dating apps perhaps
It would be like a sex buddy
Need to think this through
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I have an older friend who went through a hypersexual phase in her 30s and she regrets it. So something to consider with sexual liaison is what you’re going to have after the fact
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Yea I would really need to trust my sex buddy. Idk
With regards to stis
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It’s not for me.
And I made my husband get tested for std’s before we were intimate.
You should feel comfortable asking for proof of std status.
It’s respecting yourself and your body.
I used to have an attitude that because I had been abused, my body and my inner being were worthless.
I still struggle with it.
But I’m working on it. Hopefully you decide to work on respecting yourself and your body too.
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I should probably forget about it but idk.
I wish stis don’t exist! 
So true
I need to connect better to my rights as a human being
Thanks Coco. Wish the same for you.
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Thanks @Zoe 
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I found sex to be much better with someone you have feelings for 
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I want to find a guy with a big penis. Cos it’s just a sex buddy. I don’t think it would stretch me out significantly if I’m wet.
My vagina is average though so the guy might not hang around forever. Idk.
However, variety is the spice of life
I don’t like that myself because if I’m in love, and it ends badly I will feel used and heartbroken.
I can’t accept that in my life anymore.
Anyway I don’t know how to be in a typical romantic relationship.
I prefer the casual but respectful one
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Make a tinder etc. profile stating all your requirements dick size, sti test, etc. Then enjoy!
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That’s fair, if you can pull off the friends with benefits relationship, then good on ya. But I’m guessing if you have one of those relationships, someone is gonna catch feelings. Happens more times than not, it seems
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I did what @LilyoftheValley talks about. I didn’t respect myself…my body and being…because of child abuse.
I had a rather unsafe and promiscuous lifestyle because of that. It got me in various troubles.
To each their own.
But for me, it gave short term pleasure, long term hurt. It reinforced my feeling that I was only worth being used, not loved. It isn’t for me anymore.
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