What if he is ? What if hes like the others. Weve been saying 10 months now but what if he reveals his true colours ?
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Most people get comfy after about 3 months of dating, I imagine by now, what you see is what you get
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It sometimes takes years to really know somebody. But most people arenāt adept at hiding their ātrue coloursā that long. Chances are, if heās been sweet to you so far, despite knowing about your illness and everything, heās a genuine guy who deserves your confidence. My two cents.
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TRuth is, youāre probably going to find out some things you donāt like about him eventually.
But you have to remember all the good things, and not give up because he isnāt as perfect as when you met.
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Is this a trust issue?. They say if you travel together you find out what someone is really like because of all the unknowns.
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It is also true that some people, the more they age, the better they get at adding layers of deceit over their true selves. Sometimes they do it on purpose, other times involuntarily. But real men donāt do that. They walk in the light. I really hope your guy is of that good kind 
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To tell the truth I donāt think heās the cheating kind. But i get these thoughts come into my head.
Like today I apologies for something. I said sorry. He said you will be. And said just kidding. It made me think what if theres an ulterior motive.
It depends how often he resorts to witty humour. Alpha males do it often, they feel empowered by it. But itās cheap. Alphas are ultimately jerks.
From what you told us before, your guy isnāt alpha. I think youāre safeš
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I agree he seems harmless on the surface maybe Iām just being silly.
Iām waiting for our 20th anniversary before I reveal my true alien shape shifter nature to Mrs. Pixel.
Now THAT will be a surprise!!!
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Well that does put things into perspective. If he has an ulterior motive , if he wants money I donāt have I guess he would pop the q by now as he knows Iām bit impatient 
but he wanna live together travel together and we get married when we 150 
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you will look like melted cheese by then 
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someone kick sense into him no but honestly he needs to feel ready. If he doesnāt ever its fineā¦ donāt need it on paperā¦ But if he wants to leave I know Ive had an amazing relationship with an amazing person. And Iād wish him well. Wouldnāt remain friends as that would be too hard.
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Hope everything is going well!
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