But for now, I’ll just talk about it. Just picture some jerk stomping across the floor whenever you show self doubt. I know he’s thinking of me, he doesn’t move up there except when he’s torturing me. I sincerely hope, with all my heart, something really, really, really bad happens to him.
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I’m having trouble picturing it because it’s not a real thing. This assumes a level of telepathic ability on the part of your neighbour that is so improbable you have better odds of winning the Powerball 1000x in a row. Your illness is messing with you, mate. 
Maybe – if you’re up to it – go for a cruise and grab a Coke?
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Maybe no one can read minds but they are constantly, CONSTANTLY trying and when they sense weakness they take advantage of it. Maybe it doesn’t happen in other apartments but it’s happening here. I hate that bas*ard.
Aw man sorry you have to live through that. For reference I live in a studio with no one above but of course the neighbour downstairs had to come knock on my door to ask why I was dragging furniture across the floor. It had to happen. Least no voices outside cuz I’m facing a backstreet. 
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I don’t know what to say. I hope you know how much I respect you and admire you for how well you push back against the illness and I hope you know I wouldn’t try to shine you on. I know how real it feels when these thoughts hit – trust me on this – the alien circus is always a few feet away from me blasting me with their crap. It’s really hard to tell myself it’s silly rubbish I can ignore when I’m tired or in rough shape because it is just so goddamn compelling.
Please don’t act on it. You shared before how your housing was precarious and I would hate for you to wind up in a pickle where you are now or have something happen that robs you of the opportunity to move into your studio apartment very soon.
Fingers crossed for you, sir.
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OK, thanks. I still hate him though.
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Contempt for utter douchebuckets is valid and encouraged as long as it is not done to excess.
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My neighbor upstairs yells at me through ceiling and follow me around every day. I’ve been told to wear 
. headphones. Calm down. I’ve found the best thing to do is ignore it. I try to anyway. If it gets to be too much go to manage it.
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If I try to ignore it it just spurs him on to be even more of an ashole. He’s such an ashole that when I read shutterbugs answer and calmed down of course the jerk upstairs stopped making noise. Like it’s all my fault that I get a little bugged at him for being an as*hole every day. The guy has serious problems.
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Sorry. Does he move furniture? Mine do that. I feel like kicking them in the teeth. What recourse can we do to rid them? I’m stuck too
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Not worth it! Youll end up in a place filled with those types of people
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I can hear some people in my apartment but I know they don’t make noises to bother me.
Try your best to just ignore your neighbors @77nick77, you don’t want things to escalate.
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lol 
you remind me of neighbors below me.
I’m glad I live on top.
Please don’t you could end up arrested
I didn’t read the whole thing but still don’t do it
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Your just hyperfocused on someone else and thinking theyve devoted there time and energy to bugging you.
Even if you had no upstairs neighbour you would probably find a reason to think someone outside is trying to bug you too. Its how it goes with the brain acting up.
Upstairs neighbours moving around always appears noisy because of crappy floorboard and wall soundproofing.
Hope it passes.
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You sound very ill. Like a stereotype schizophrenic. You’ve lost a lot of insight.
Like @LevelJ1 says, you’re hyper focussed on this guy.
Do something to take your mind off him.
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It’s all in your head, buddy. I think things like that too and realized it’s just a delusion. Perhaps talk to your doctor about this. Maybe you need more meds.
I’ve been through the same thing.
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Try not to assign intent. Your neighbor is making noise, but you don’t know the intent or purpose of the noise. Is it possible that he’s just making noise?
A few weeks ago you said that you were in your car in a parking lot, and there was a car circling around the parking lot. You said the driver was circling around to bother you, but you didn’t know that. You didn’t know the intent or purpose of the driver. Is it possible that the driver was learning how to drive?
I often hear people say “he cut me off.” That saying, to me, implies intent. Is it possible that the driver simply didn’t see them? Is it possible that the driver moved in front of their car for many reasons (animal in the road, debris in the road, medical emergency, etc.)? So there’s no malice, there’s no intent.
Let’s keep an open mind.
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Really happening or not…just let it go. You’ll be in your new Studio digs soon enough.
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@77nick77 what you explained is delusional. Have you told your psychiatrist about this. Wanting to harm someone because of a delusion is serious and should be addressed by a psychiatrist.
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