I want a bf but it's so hard to find

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Want a bf who likes me for me.

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The first step is for you to like you for you. Otherwise, how are you going to convince anyone else?

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I kind of do. :slight_smile:

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but maybe not enough :frowning:

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You are a pretty likeable person @anon90843118, I am sure it wont be that hard. You have just got to put yourself out there.

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(8) @anon98459728 likes @anon90843118 ! @anon98459728 likes @anon90843118 ! haha (8)

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What? Just saying, she is pretty easy to get along with. Cant a guy give a girl a compliment?

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I hear you @anon90843118-- I worry about finding a boyfriend who loves me for me, too.

But like @anon98459728 said, you’re a pretty likeable person, and you’re very caring and sociable too, so don’t get down on yourself-- you’ve got a lot to offer :slightly_smiling_face:

Edit: accidentally deleted this post! Whoops :upside_down_face:

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@anon90843118 , what has your experience of dating sites been like?

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I met hubby online. It can work.

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lol just kidding bud!

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It takes time, keep working on yourself and the right guy will come along.

You’ve got a lot to offer someone, but be careful not to offer to much to quickly.

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My advice is to keep working on yourself Butterfly. Then the right person will sort of pop up, and it might even be sort of funny because when you make dating a low priority someone can often surprise ya.

I might be a little biased, because I’m male, but I’ve noticed that I tend to get noticed all the time when I’m doing fairly mundane things. Like walking around the library for a while.

So keep working on your mental health, and then all the dating stuff will fall into place.

:slight_smile:

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Seems like it’s easier to find a BF than a GF.

Every bar or show I go to seems like it’s 75% men or more. Most dating sites have a 6/1 ratio of men to women. I feel like I’m being drown in testosterone.

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Yea maybe your right. :((

I’m just getting impatient

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You seem like a likeable person too.

:slight_smile:

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Not amazing tbh

But they’re interesting cos u get to find out about a guy a bit out of like millions of them

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I’m right here beautiful. Lol

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Seriously shoot me a pm. I could always use someone to talk to. Your personality is great and I think we’d mesh.

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I’ve been working on myself these past two years, getting the weight under control. I feel like I’m about as good as I’m going to get mentally and that now its just up to getting through hurdles that stopped progress before.

Keep the hope alive, you’re gonna find someone for ya.

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