I want a girlfriend but I am fat 😔

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Can’t imagine how anyone would find me attractive.

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Don’t be so hard on yourself @Jimbob
Your not a bad looking dude.
Besides, looks are not everything.
I really judge others on their personalities.

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I believe with confidence you can find someone. Women are drawn to confident men. Be confident in yourself and dont fear regection, put yourself out there. Whats the worst that can happen, a woman turns you down for a date, so what, wont end the world. Can’t catch fish if you never go fishing! So get out there, apply the right bait, and use your pole!!! Lol.

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I don’t care for them.

I’d rather dream than be continually rejected to suicide.

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Don’t give it too much stress
Believe me, there are guys/girls who love bigger partners. Not everyone likes Baywatch types.

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I was very good looking and had a great life until I got sick and gained a lot of weight. Lucky my personality was liked by a girl and we are together. Try to go out and meet people. Be social. You will find someone.

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Well, how many times have you put yourself out there?

Losing weight can happen

I need a girl as well

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i think there are a lot of us like this

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I’ve learned to be grateful for what I have.

but sometimes I forget.

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I’ve seen your pic - you are awesome!!! plus you have a great funny personality, so just be confident =)

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Thanks Karen. xoxo

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I like fat guys. Some women do so u should be alright.

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Same here, i feel no-one will ever want me

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I am fat too but I’m going to lose it soon it all comes from the mind being overpowered by thoughts of food etc (ocd intrusive thoughts) and lack of control. Beat it you can do it.

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get a fat girlfriend

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Consider it as motivation for when you see your dietician ! :sunny:

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Look at this way. The prettiest women and the most handsome men turn quite a bit less than pretty and handsome when they grow old. If you are looking for a woman to be with forever looks won’t be a big deal. If all you want is a pretty woman to sleep with go to a place where prostitution is legal and sleep with a whore for money only because that sounds like all you are looking for in a woman.

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I want to be thin but i have a girlfriend.

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I want a girlfriend but I have this small problem where i go insane every so often when I don’t take my meds.
It makes reliability and trust in a relationship difficult.
It also has done a huge number on my self esteem.
No self esteem= good luck findng a mate

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Hey, all kinds of over-weight people get together. Weight in itself doesn’t stop people from hooking up. If overweight people couldn’t get girlfriends than half of America would be single.

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