My friend makes me feel undervalued a lot and always has so I’ve pulled away greatly. She makes no effort to see me and doesn’t follow through with plans. I know people get busy I am a very understanding person with that but I’m talking a decade long friendship of this. Anyway she hit me up asking me if she could come over, asked for a favor so she could help her friend out. I said no because she has made no effort to see me and now is fine coming over if it means helping someone else. I’m depressed as hell and that just struck a nerve in how ive been feeling. Like no one cares about me until it’s convenient for them. Like if I died people wouldn’t really notice.
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Stand your ground if you think youre being used/ abused, but at the same time try to keep whatever friendships you have.
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I’m sorry you don’t get any support from your parents. That must be tough.
Do you have any siblings?
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I have a brother. He lives with my parents so I can’t really see him either. I try to get him to visit but he doesn’t. We do live a half hr drive apart, but he doesn’t have issues driving far like I do.
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I think you did the right thing. It sounds like that person doesn’t value you and was using you (in this instance).
Try not to let that one person influence your self worth though. Just because she wasn’t very nice to you doesn’t mean other friends of yours don’t value you.
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It’s sad that many people never meet the right people for them and may be stuck with less genuine friends. You shouldn’t blame yourself.
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