I feel awful

My mom’s job got disconnected meaning she’s out of a job and I didn’t understand that at first she explained it then said “you know what you make me so sad and depressed I don’t want to talk to you anymore”

Idk if she means forever or what… She’s been yelling at me a lot more lately and I think this may have been the nail in the coffin… Idk how to proceed… I’m so confused… Is this a forever change or just for a bit… Do I even want her back in my life after this? I’m not sure. I cried for an hour sure she hated me…

I’ve always been the less smart child, the screw up jet the only one that talks to her on a regular basis… Do I just get my couch Thursday and cut all ties besides sending a check in the mail? Will she return the couch? (She bought it with the agreement we’d pay her back in increments)

I’m so sad and confused… I always knew she hated me… She hasn’t said she loved me in years yet my brother who hardly talks to her she says it all the time

What about my birthday it’s next month we were all going to the zoo… I’ll probably just cancel that

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I don’t think she doesn’t want to talk to you ever again in the future. You both just need a break and process the emotions.

Family relations can be hard. My mom never tells me that she loves me and is not interested in my life. But she has her good sides. She payed for a holiday in Italy last September.

Your mum is really upset and stressed losing her job. I wouldn’t take what she says literally and put too much weight on it. Maybe help her around the house do some cleaning, make her a cup of cocoa. Show her you can contribute

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