I think i fell in love or something

but it does not feel like it would work out

so that leads me to, the question,

how do i get over someone i see every day at work?

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They say most romances start in winter.

Do you think he likes you back? How do you really know it won’t work out?

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idk…it is a gut feeling

like i like him

but my mind tells me that i don’t know how to be myself around him if i decide to give it a chance

i don’t know what he thinks of me

i don’t think it is meant to be

what is the difference between being in love and having a crush?

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Well, technically it’s not really love until you really know the person.

Anything up until that point is infatuation, aka a crush.

An infatuation can easily grow into love over time.

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oh i see

i guess i am not in love then

even though that is what it feels like

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Hey I think you’re over thinking things and it is making you anxious. Maybe talk to him a little… see how it goes… maybe you guys will become friends. Try not to think about the outcome before the start

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They do feel very similar.

Just talk to him. Start out with little things like saying Hi, and asking how his day is going.

Then if that goes well sit with him at lunch or something like that.

Confidence my friend.

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Yeah what Monte said… start with little things

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@anon63380492 aka The Jamaican Queen knows how to work a man!! :wink: :sunglasses:

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Every pair of people has a different compatability and dynamic.
If you say it is love it probably is. It comes in many different shapes and sizes is my guess.

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Lawl :joy::joy::joy:… 151515

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this.is.good.advice.

i will try that…lol :confused:

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I had love at first sight this morning. I saw my pizza pops just baking so beautifully in the microwave and was just thinking mmmmmmm I’m gonna devour you :heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes:
And boy oh boy did I devour them :relieved::relieved::relieved:

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Are you looking for a long term relationship? Or do you just want a one night stand? Or somewhere in-between?

You should probably figure out what exactly it is you want from the relationship before you dive too deep.

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i worry about things…, makes my confidence questionable.

but yea i am a try er

shoot for the moon, if i miss i land on a star

hopefully not middle of nowhere in space

thanks Montezuma :+1:

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I used to struggle with this a lot… now if stuff works great and if not it’s ok. It still creeps in at times, like if I like the person a lot, but I try to curb it. It’s anxiety and insecurity… I think the more you learn to let go of the outcome the better things will flow.

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Serious thoughts though, love is more of a choice to me. I choose to love I don’t feel compelled to.
Building a connection is like the bond, and having respect and fun and taking care of each other sorta stuffs.

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To me, only paying $20 instead of $40.00.

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when i think of him as a bf, it shuts me down socially with him.

if i look at him in a just friendly capacity, i don’t shut down like that, but then i feel kind of sad around him, knowing that i have turned off the bf type of chance

If you pay me 60 I’ll use a hoola hoop :crazy_face:

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