I miss my sister but she does not wanna talk to me

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I must have ■■■■■■ up when I told her I don’t want to see her anymore cos I don’t trust her.

I tried to reconcile but now she doesn’t want to speak to me anymore.

It’s really sad.

Shall I just let go or shall i knock at her door with an apology face to face and with a present.

I do miss her.

I can’t help that I felt so suspicious.

But I’ll be more positive now.

She said some horrible thing to me, accused me of using her which is mad cos I just was trying to befriend her I do need to bring that up

I don’t know, I feel really low.

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You told your sister that?

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Yes, I did because that’s how I felt.

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That’s a very good idea. Explain that it was the illness talking and you’ve had to take time off from work because of it too.

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Did she hurt you? Do you forgive her without her apologizing too?

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The thing is I tried to talk to her through watsapp via my dad since she blocked me.

But her response via my dad is that she doesn’t want to speak to me cos I treat her badly.

So if I go to her house after that message is that crossing the line.

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Wow.

I can’t imagine talking to my sister like that.

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I think all you can do if that is where things are at is -

Send a card - apologizing and that you miss her - and have no expectations except that you just want her to know.

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I decided that I forgive her even if she doesn’t apologise because no one is perfect.

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Yes, that’s a good idea. Maybe post a present with a card explaining things.

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I’m at my sister’s wedding right now
Being around family is always awkward for me
She’s marrying a cop so he’s got all these cop friends around
Bleh

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That’s a good idea. At least she knows then. That I’m here if she ever wants to speak.

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Lol that sounds fun. I hope you make it through. Congratulations to her.

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Yes i was gonna say bring her coffee or mcdonalss fries or something lol. Siblings can never stay mad at eachother

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I hope you are right. Lol. But I don’t know it’s been a while now and she still hasn’t reached out like I told her she can if she wants to.

I feel sad.

She was my only friend that was a female. Now I have no one

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We shouldnt be alone in psychosis…its really improtsnt to be around peeps so you can get out of your head. She still loves you dont listen to those voices. Sometimes people get busy or lose track of time or dispair about your relationship the way we do.

Everybody loves a giver of gifts :grin::joy: she may ne going through a tough time too. Shes gonna be so happy to finally talk to you and catch up

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People are allowed to cut off those that treat them badly. It sounds like that is what she has done. She has the right, it doesn’t matter that you have mental illness, you dont have to say awful rhings to anyone.

I’m saying this as someone that has done those things and lost friends. They have the right to move on. I’m also saying this as someonw that cut off toxic people.

In her eyes you are toxic. Let her move on. Maybe in time she will reavh out to you.

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Well she called me a user I’m not the only one who has been out of line

Having said that I still want to send her a letter of apology and explanation. Do you think that’s okay? I don’t see no harm in that. It is a way for her to see what she means to me and how much I am sorry for my jealousy and greed.

I’ve definitely been a terrible sister.

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My sister told me not to call or text her anymore back in March of this year. She said to mail her a letter by Post Office if I need to communicate with her. I’m doing fine not talking to her.

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Just leave her alone. You’ve already tried and she doesn’t want to hear it. Respect her wishes. Not respecting her boundaries is abusive.

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