Maybe around the first of March or so my sister told me not to call or text her anymore. She said she was stressed out dealing with me and to mail her written letters by the post office if I need to communicate with her. My brother-in-law still mails me letters. With her out of the picture leaves me without any next-of-kin.
I’m so sorry to hear this @anon54988740 ! It must be so awful. My sister and I are so close and if it happened to me I’d not be able to cope. Hope the situation becomes easier for you soon!
Thanks @Hadeda. It really isn’t bothering me now. She and I have been growing apart ever since mom died four years ago. I realize she has a heart problem now and doesn’t need to be freaking out over what I’m doing.
My mom told me yesterday she don’t understand what’s wrong with me but can’t handle another episode, like it’s my fault or something, I don’t trouble anyone so I stay away.
So I feel your loneliness.
I feel your pain.
My sister is not speaking to me and has asked me not to contact her under any circumstance.
It hurts a lot, and despite our differences, I love and miss her.
Her baby is due soon, I might send her a baby gift
i thought you had the heart prob?
Sorry @anon85745701 My sister has some heart problem that causes her to go into AFib. My heart problem is a Grade 2 Diastolic Disfunction that causes me shortness of breath when exercising. So we both have a heart condition. Hers is probably more serious.
Yeah thats awful
Caregiver burnout is a thing. Neurotypicals also have their breaking points.
Well at least you have us here
I hope I never meet my sister again and will do everything do avoid her .
This also includes her husband my nephew and their family.
They think they are my superior.
They haven’t experienced anything and their stuck up socialites who look down on me, try to dominate me and supress me and disrespect me and they don’t have any love for me.
I don’t want them in my life.
They have hate towards me but they pretend to be nice.
A few I will meet for very short time only once year or so perhaps.
They don’t deserve me but I have unconditional love complicated difficult but they have been bad so bad to me.
Have you got friends or anyone else close to you?
I would rather take my chances with a stranger caring for me than a family member I know hates me and try’s disable me more instead of encouraging independent etc
I know there are some subjects I cannot talk to my sister about without causing her to get upset. So I am working on limiting my conversations with her. She has made it in this world and has found peace with our parents. This I have not done. She does not want to discuss my still open wounds. So be it. 'That’s what therapists are for.
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