It takes time for a woman to see a message and reply.
Honestly I feel so different from my friends, I don’t know what an adult woman looks in a relationship. They usually have a set of requirements. it appears so. If someone is considered good looking, you probably don’t have any chance, unless you are rich. This is the truth from what I’ve noticed.
Career, vocabulary and grammar, his opinions on different subjects. If I was single, someone who already has kids or the perfect age to have kids. Should be successful and well established. (I’m 30) drug/alcohol/substance abuse is a run for your life. If he has a nice family who likes me, it’s a huge bonus.
If he’s arrogant to a waitress, it’s a run for your life. The jokes should be impressive and smart, probably someone who likes finer things in life like expensive dinners and outings.
yeah, i guess those nicer women like wealthy guys, maybe if i save up some money i could have a chance lol, i’ll have a nice car in a few weeks anyway, thats something, i stay in a nice area, nobody really cares though, i doubt they even read my profile lol
Mr. Star got my interest by making a joke about how confusing the English language is, because William of Normandy tried to make it look fancier by stealing the letter q from the French. It was ridiculous, and adorable, and I loved it. He did not comment on my appearance once, until after we met in person. I would never respond to a message from someone talking about my appearance. It would feel too much like they’re judging me, even if it was a compliment.
I suggest you try either drinking more, or drinking less, before online dating. Maybe try it both ways and get back to us with the results.
In all seriousness, as a man, you have to get used to the idea that it’s up to you to initiate contact 90% of the time. The few times you get contacted directly, it is normally from women whose assets are not readily apparent - and you can’t take it personally when you don’t get an answer back.
My understanding is that any genuine women with profiles on sites like these are so absolutely deluged by responses from men that it is often not practical for them to respond to them all, even with a brief, polite message.
Yeah I agree w the others I wouldn’t respond to something like that. It comes off as a bit creepy unfortunately. I also don’t tend to respond to things like hi or what’s up because they’re so generic and I hate small talk. I think what I’m most likely to respond to is when someone reaches out about a shared interest or says like specifically why they found me interesting, not just based on appearance. Even if they just have some interesting question or topic.
Girls get absolutely spammed on dating sites that why I quit them, and messages like that girls can get 100s of a day.