I spent £30 on bumble and £45 on pof 
i havent had any messages
I feel like a loser, a broke loser,
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Wait. I thought you had a girlfriend. I guess y’all broke up. It’s been years since I’ve been on a dating site. I don’t know how they work.
Maybe give it some time. I think you did the right thing. At least you tried.
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I wouldn’t pay for such sites
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Do you feel comfortable telling what you wrote on there? I’m a woman. Maybe I can help. You can pm me if you want.
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Yea I’ve been on two for a bit too. Been a waste of money for me. Good they expire soon for me. Sorry you havent had much luck. Things might still turn around
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What about eharmony.com?
@everhopeful thx but i just feel like i’m getting conned and idk whether to pay more to try and get noticed, the price i pay for love
@Loke thx i’d love some help with it, i think its my pics, i’m going to try get a pic taken at the gym where i go and in the radio station, i’ll PM you
@Om_Sadasiva i dont see any other way, if i left it without paying no-one would see my profile bc i probably wouldnt show up on many searches
So, now you appear more easily on searches?
yes, apparently, i have had no messages yet,
i try and send them but it can be hard, i was chatting with someone but she ghosted me, its complicated
It’s probably your pictures.
Go outside and try to catch some natural lights,
Keep your camera straight or upward.
You also need to give it some time,
I feel like you just mentioned paying for these services.
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Why are you paying for pof? That ones free.
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I figure internet dating is broken anyway and it is not worth the time.
Internet datingsites are tough … you have to lie a bit to get any matches. I was lying in my profile text, got a lot of contact. Then i was frank, and lost them all. .
I came to the conclusion years ago, that online dating sites are not for Schizophrenics.
People should learn to be able to be comfortable with their own company - without moaning they havent got a man / woman - and projecting their personal issues of neediness on someone else.
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What about getting a cat?
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Oh Yeah mate - Cats are fine lol. Been 9 months , and im still waiting for the right kitty to look after 
I had a 3 legged cat called Percy funnily enough. But he sadly died - partly due to some woman - but i wont go into it…
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i think it helps you get spotted by more women, funny enough idk how it happened but a lady sent me a message an hour ago and we’ve been chatting, maybe there is hope for me yet,
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I spent £60 on match for 6 months on offer and it wasn’t worth the money.
I think a lot of the profiles are either fake or inactive, and even the ones on there don’t respond to me so I have given up on that idea.
6 Months I think is long enough to know if it will work or not.
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@daydreamer Pictures definitely need some improvement.
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