Messages on pof, dating site

DX'd - Other
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i am usually really bad at these dating sites but the last couple of days i have been determined to find a partner or even just a date, i have sent out almost fifty messages to women i like and i have had about 10-15 views, no messages yet but its better than i ever did before, i’m just fed up of being on my own :frowning: i need a partner, i need to be complete :slight_smile:

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Playing the numbers game?

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I recommend a better site like match or eharmony

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More people, better odds?

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I’ve never been on a dating site…

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My pof was full of bots or fake accounts. I got rid of it.

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what is pof? :slight_smile:

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Wouldn’t match or eharmony be full of bots as well?

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I am okay being alone.

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Humans need interaction such as surviving out alone in the wilderness. Solitary confinement can make you crazy.

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Not if you already are. :crazy_face:

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Met a couple of woman on Plenty of Fish a couple years ago. Never worked out well - both were dysfunctional (worse than me!!) and were just interested in how much money i could spend on them, wasnt interested in marriage or a serious relationship. Apart from one woman that declared her love for me and proposed to me after a week and half, never mind she was seriously obese and clingy and forgot to mention her 3 children from 3 different fathers. Made my excuse to go out for the morning paper and never went back. Would never use them again…

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i tried a few already but it was no use, i never got anywhere, at least i’m trying and its free so i wont get ripped off again :confused:

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You have to pay for that service??? Geese…

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My Dad was on a dating site and he said the girl seemed to like her, but then she started asking for money lol

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Ouch! That’s a bad sign.

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Sounds about right. You sometimes wonder whether its some nigerian con artist in an internet cafe trying to make a few quid!!!

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That almost happened to me once when I was trying to rent out a room. Girl sent a fake check and my Aunt caught it before I cashed it. So I know what they act like now. I wasn’t going to say anything to him but he called me when she asked for money and I told him to block her and not talk to her anymore.

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i’m just hoping for the best, its all i’ve got :confused:

idk what else i can do tbh

if i get a bad one i’ll just move on and hopefully meet a good one eventually

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