She’s gaining weight rapidly. She’s 4”11 and 400 pounds. She is bigger every time I see her. She’s single and desperate for love and keeps getting ghosted by guys she meets on the Internet after they meet with her and sleep with her. Then they ditch her. She’s already gotten STDs. She’s really nice and deserves love. Unfortunately with her weight as it is, most guys won’t find her attractive so it’s just a vicious cycle of her being dumped and emotionally eating. I’m worried.
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Hope she can do something about the weight gain, I was discussing it with a customer last week, his sister is in hospital now, she reached a weight she can no longer carry herself and fell over. sad really how one can gain so much weight
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And gain it so fast. She’ll be at 600 pounds before she knows it and it’ll be life threatening.
400 is life threatening
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She doesn’t even put protection? You know love is not for everyone, I gave up on love since I got sz and I am happier now.
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I didn’t know that. I’ve seen My 600 Pound Life on tv, and knew that was life threatening but not 400. I know she could have diabetes at 400 though
weight is very hard on the body and organs and if she trips and fall there could be a lot of damage
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I don’t think she uses protection. She says she does, but she keeps getting STDs, so I don’t think she’s using condoms
I mean do I talk to her about it? I want to be a supportive friend and I don’t want to hurt her
I am 300lb and increasing. I will do weight loss surgery when I am at 400+lb. Doesn’t insurance or the government cover these surgeries when you’re 400+lb with a very high BMI?
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Not necessarily. Some insurances will cover a portion of the cost of surgery. But for the surgery to work you still have to be willing to eat healthy and not overeat
Not sure, some people are open to talk others not so much, I know my customers sister always just starts crying when he tries to get her to work on it, but she refuses to do anything
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Then its better for her health to not have sex. I mean many healthy ppl are single and not having sex.
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I think she has a pretty high sex drive and won’t go without it
I had high sex drive on Abilify. I am sure there is meds to reduce sex drive but that’s up to her really, its personal.
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Yeah. I don’t think she’d be willing to go without it
Who’s supporting her, who buys all her food and prepares it?
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I know drugs increase sex drive so maybe if that’s the cause it can be controlled.
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I think she should see a psychologist and try to find out why she is attracted to a****** men. She needs to learn how to be a better judge of character before sleeping with these men. There are men out there that only like to date big women.
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I think she should get herself off and stop opening up her legs for all these men.
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