I’m really sad about that question because I never dated due to my ilness problems, my shyness and because of the extreme anxiety that I had in the past.
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I am sorry, I thought you are a girl.
No.
This is funny.
I’m boy with almost 24.
I forgot that some ladies use this name also.
But it’s just a nickname, I have another name.
He could be a lesbian 
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I would say join a dating site but lots disagree. Personally just find it easier because you intend to meet for a date that’s the intention so it’s not so hard to ask someone out.
I’m plagued by shyness too, but I have gotten set in my ways. I like being alone and only having to worry about myself. It’s too late for me to start a family. I’m 57 years old. I probably missed out on a lot of good experiences by not having a family, but now I think it is too late.
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I’m really sad about that.
Because I’ve seen so beautiful girls these days,
and some of them dating.
And I think: “What is wrong with me?”
“Why they can and I can’t?”
“Will this loniless takes forever?”
I’m really really sad about that.
Well, I think I’m too young yet.
One day things will be better in this question.
I only need to have patience.
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I think you need to do something about this. Don’t just sit around and wait for things to change. Do things that are outside of your comfort zone.
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You’re right.
But I was trying to get dating with one girl before, and another girl also, this was recently, but these two girls rejeted me.
Being rejected is really tough. But that is the risk you take when you try to date people. I’m sorry they rejected you, but don’t let this prevent you from trying to find love.
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Thank you for your support.
I could start a conversation with some girl of my school where I do my course and see what happens.
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I think that’s a great idea. 
Good luck!
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Thanks.
Some girls dig shy guys. They think it’s sweet and they want the challenge of opening you up.
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And many girls are shy too and they are looking for someone like themselves.
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fate can lead you to the right girlfriend imo
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I really think it may depend on who you meet.
Maybe you are shy with most people but maybe there is a woman out there who you would feel so relaxed and comfortable with that you were not even shy the first date but could even laugh and be happy.
You could tell her from the start that you might be shy and that you think you will be shy.
Online can be good way to first meet as you write instead of speak to start of with.
Dont let shyness hold you back from what could be a great experience n relationship.
Wishing you to meet someone lovely for you that is. n whatever that is for you…
@Andy
my son 22 is similarly shy he does random facebook where he sees a girl and just start talking to her- he has met several friends that way - he aslo meets people through former schoolmates. It doesn’t always work most time not - but every now and again he meets someone and then they go out.
Rejection isn’t against you - just some people don’t mesh. Think if you stayed with someone that you didn’t feel you had commonality with = no good right. So it isn’t personal, you just keep trying.
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