I have a free ticket to a gig and i really want to go but bc i am such a saddo loser, no-one wants to come with me 
its really upsetting me actually.
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It’s completely soulless of me but can you sell the tickets do they have value in that regard?
It’s just that I understand all too well people.
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its killing me bc i wanted to go to a gig last Friday but i couldn’t and so i feel even worse, i really want to go but no-one else does. I might ask a staff person but i doubt they would accommodate.
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Is it a local artist or someone/some band who is famous?
I hate this for you…. Don’t give up!!!
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Why not go by yourself? I mean you don’t get the chance to socialize because of the band playing.
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Thanks, its a fundraising concert for a Dementia Charity, It could be nice, its not all crowded its set out like a cabaret style so big tables.
I might have to but i’ll look stupid sitting at the table with an empty seat next to me
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Just go! If you don’t like it you can leave.
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idk if i can go myself
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May I ask how old you are? I remember when I was young I was afraid of going to events by myself. These days I can go by myself and enjoy my time.
Good for you, I haven’t been out much to gigs and stuff and i get panicky in tight crowds, it might be easy for you, but not me.
you think bc i am older i should be able to deal with this, you think i am a big baby?
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I didn’t say you were a big baby. I was relating through my own experience. I also have difficulties with huge crowds. Usually I consume alcohol to relax. But I don’t have issues being alone.
You could always go as a learning experience. As I said you don’t need to stay!
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My neighbour called me up and said she might go so i’m hoping she does, she is a bit older but its just as friends.
sorry i was getting upset their, i ended up playing poker with JIm on discord then my neighbour called
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I’ve been to a concert by myself. No big deal.
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I couldn’t do it, too scared
I cant even watch tv without getting upset
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oh noz. Well im same way with TV
I wasn’t ever really that big into tv anyway,
I hope your neighbor goes with you…no way I could go to a concert by myself…it’s grounding to have someone with you.
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I went to a show last winter by myself. I had no one else to go with. I didn’t want to, but I’m glad I did. I also was able to leave when the atmosphere eventually became too much.
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I was at a gig with my long term ex but i couldnt take it so i sat myself in the bar area.
that was about 10 yrs ago, i got panicky bc of the crowds. it put me off going to gigs like that
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It is good to have an escape plan sometimes in these situations 
too much action can get a bit annoying and stressful. The reason I left the show is becoz the one artist started using big spotlights that had a strobe effect. I was up in the balcony and they were glaring in all of our eyes. I got a dang migraine and started getting anxious.