I have a free ticket to a gig and i really want to go but bc i am such a saddo loser, no-one wants to come with me its really upsetting me actually.
It’s completely soulless of me but can you sell the tickets do they have value in that regard?
It’s just that I understand all too well people.
its killing me bc i wanted to go to a gig last Friday but i couldn’t and so i feel even worse, i really want to go but no-one else does. I might ask a staff person but i doubt they would accommodate.
Is it a local artist or someone/some band who is famous?
I hate this for you…. Don’t give up!!!
Why not go by yourself? I mean you don’t get the chance to socialize because of the band playing.
Thanks, its a fundraising concert for a Dementia Charity, It could be nice, its not all crowded its set out like a cabaret style so big tables.
I might have to but i’ll look stupid sitting at the table with an empty seat next to me
Just go! If you don’t like it you can leave.
idk if i can go myself
May I ask how old you are? I remember when I was young I was afraid of going to events by myself. These days I can go by myself and enjoy my time.
Good for you, I haven’t been out much to gigs and stuff and i get panicky in tight crowds, it might be easy for you, but not me.
you think bc i am older i should be able to deal with this, you think i am a big baby?
I didn’t say you were a big baby. I was relating through my own experience. I also have difficulties with huge crowds. Usually I consume alcohol to relax. But I don’t have issues being alone.
You could always go as a learning experience. As I said you don’t need to stay!
My neighbour called me up and said she might go so i’m hoping she does, she is a bit older but its just as friends.
sorry i was getting upset their, i ended up playing poker with JIm on discord then my neighbour called
I’ve been to a concert by myself. No big deal.
I couldn’t do it, too scared
I cant even watch tv without getting upset
oh noz. Well im same way with TV
I wasn’t ever really that big into tv anyway,
I hope your neighbor goes with you…no way I could go to a concert by myself…it’s grounding to have someone with you.
I went to a show last winter by myself. I had no one else to go with. I didn’t want to, but I’m glad I did. I also was able to leave when the atmosphere eventually became too much.
I was at a gig with my long term ex but i couldnt take it so i sat myself in the bar area.
that was about 10 yrs ago, i got panicky bc of the crowds. it put me off going to gigs like that
It is good to have an escape plan sometimes in these situations too much action can get a bit annoying and stressful. The reason I left the show is becoz the one artist started using big spotlights that had a strobe effect. I was up in the balcony and they were glaring in all of our eyes. I got a dang migraine and started getting anxious.