1st
i am guy not girl
but it is not the point
the main point is my parents donot wanna me to say to my future partner that i am ill and take medication
are they right ?that i shouldnt tell her about my illness
how do you see that girls ??
guys shouldnt i tell her as my parents told me ?
i am intending to tell her without my parents know secretly when i am with her
i wanna someone who truly wants me
thank you
For a decent relationship you have to tell. If it’s early days then it pays to not tell too much but depends on person and situation. It’s like many things…you bring them up when appropriate.
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I don’t think that’s something you could or would want to do. I think you eventually have to let her know. In time.
Let her get to know you first, but when things get serious it’s best not to keep it a secret.
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Aommm if you trust and love her then you should do it, but first you should try to know what is her opinion about mental illness, then if you see she is a “mind open” person go for it and tell her!
I would not say anything about it. I would just slowly reduce that mess. And for the rest, you should not tell that you have ever been ill. It is a piece for yourself.
“I wanna some one who truly wants me.” - I don’t think this is possible. How many people get psych after marriage. I think.
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