Not only will it make me ill, he never listens to me… he has alcohol and depression issues and he wont accept something is wrong… he thinks people who take time off for mental problems are taking the mickey… i remember when i took 6 months of he gave me a good earful…
I called the police and ambulance yesterday but if he don’t want to help himself i am done being there cos he doest want my support.
You can only do so much to help someone. If he doesn’t want to help himself there’s nothing else you can really do except wait for him to get to that point. You also have to consider your own mental health. You have to be careful not to put yourself in a situation where you’re gonna get worse or go into crisis mode.
I’m very worried about both of you. If helping him is too burdensome for you, please pull away. But he also needs help. Is there another person close to him that you can tell so they can help?
This is about your uncle, right? I’m sorry he’s being like this. I don’t think you’re evil for knowing your own limits. You can’t care for someone else when your own stores are heavily depleted.