I don't think I'm gay but you'd think so I probably am

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I’m struggling really bad with this … I’m really nervous about the holiday with him. He did say it doesn’t have to happen but I’m nervous as well as excited about the trip at the same time.

Anyway back to the subject … Could I actually be gay if I’m struggling this much. I can’t see myself with women… I’m not attracted to women that way. but if I’m struggling this much then could it be possible …?

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Of course you’re not gay if you don’t feel any attraction to other women. In my opinion you are either asexual (unlikely), demisexual (more likely) or really shy (most probably).

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You don’t have to be gay or straight or anything. Do you love him? If so, that’s really what matters.

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I really do. It’s why it upsets me I can’t get there.

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I think you’ll figure it out, @anon80629714

just be patient, you always have been.

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You are probably just shy.
You are new to the dating scene.
Don’t put added pressure on your self.
Take things slow if you have to but openly communicate with him.

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I have thought about being demisexual too. And maybe we still at the early stages of getting to know each other even though it’s been a year but everyone’s different.

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Fk life…ghhhh

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Yeah forget intercourse. Maybe you could explore kissing cuddling maybe mutual oral pleasuring etc… Maybe you perceive normal sex as being too rough or something - some people do.

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I don’t have girlfriend and I am struggling what will happen when I have

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Women for some reason seem to struggle more with finding out whether they are gay or not. Some don’t find out until they meet that special woman. But no, I don’t think you’re gay. I can’t give you a reason, but I really don’t think so.

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Oh no @anon48059102 , hell will break loose when you get a girlfriend. It will be horrible.

Just kidding. Be more relaxed man! Women are humans too just like us. They just have a slightly different anatomy.

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And different brain

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They have different hormones which make them more moody. But it’s not the end of the world!!

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You can choose what to be or not to be and work through that

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oh geez, do we have to go there, my hormones are just fine, wanting it some, wanting it little, what do we got to confess to.?

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I don’t think it’s possible to choose your sexuality…

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To choose what do you want to be gay or straight

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I don’t believe it’s a choice.

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Hey I like women ok? Moody is not a bad thing. It just takes time for men to get used to it that’s all :grinning:

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