My brother who is a board member of the group home charity is now telling me that there are no available spots in any of the group homes in my area.
He is now forcing me to go back home and live with my father.
I will still be using some of the charities services like getting rides to and from places and doctors appointments and a social worker will be visiting me everyday.
I think that I will be moving into my own apartment
And take advantage of the charities services.
I am not going back to that control freak - the Hospital, my private psychiatrist and therapist are dead set against me living in that unhealthy environment.
I am truly afraid that if I go back, he is going to falsely accuse me and have me committed again or I will be sent to jail.
I am not happy.
That’s maybe the best option for you, really.
Don’t go back! I will worry too much for you.
I really hope you can get your own apartment soon.
I think that I have to go back just for a short time.
My psychiatrist and therapist and the Hospital knows his number.
I will have the social worker come visit me everyday.
I will tell her the issues I am having with him so she can record everything he does.
If he abuses my mother I’m calling my brother immediately.
I should be ok for a while.
I told my brother that he is an abusive Narcissist, he believes me.
I hope you get your apartment soon.
wow that’s a tough deal. I hope you get to find a happy home of your own and can afford it…it takes all my check to live in this house.
You need someone to step in and help you with this ongoing situation. Preferably someone you can trust and who has your best interests at heart.
I am a pro at getting out of horrible situations…and living on your own is the best, with friends and family (who are good) around.
I am going to my own place in my hometown for a different degree. It’s actually a more reputable school at the graduate level- an MS in rehab there will set me up well for a PhD in rehab, then I can go profess about my internship and one year of giving back in work and the weird intensity I have about learning.
I just hate moving, and my heart health needs tx pretty bad- I am a poor metabolizer of high doses of antipsychotics.
■■■■ abusive people, I am a narcissistic with awareness of my personality and I do good things because I know how bad I can be. I just have issues with people who don’t respect illness, when it isn’t just physical.
It sounds like u may be falling down the path of ‘learned helplessness’. Little steps go a long way. The govt helps those with disabilities live independent lives. With govt help I am sure u can find a safer environment u can feel comfortable in. Don’t stop exploring your options.
At least your brother believes you. Well I hope you don’t have to stay there long.
The problem is that I have a feeling that my brother is in it together with my father.
My brother has a deep seated hatred towards me but sometimes plays the game well.
He sides with my father many times.
Oh you’re in a no win situation then. How long do you think it will take for you to get an apartment?