I have in-laws, which are miles beyond worse. If you cut them out, be prepared for major conflict with spouse. Ask me how I know.
My family is dead and gone save for my mother’s brother. He’s alright, but I can’t get a read on him. I still don’t know how I feel about him. His daughter, my cousin, won’t speak to me because I called her friend a ducking biznatch in 1995. Makes sense, huh?
I’ve mortally offended a few of my wife’s cousins by telling them exactly how stupid and useless they are (nothing I said was inaccurate). Now I’m not welcome at family gatherings. This was the desired outcome.
I only go to them because I live away from family, and it’s an opportunity to see my nan
When she goes, I think her 7 daughters are going to split off into tribes as they’re really bitchy to each other
Know for sure when that happens I won’t go
Anyways, for me I have a complicated family arrangement. I don’t like my step sister because she cut off her mothers father, and my step dad stayed in contact with his ex-father in law because he disowned his daughter when they split up.
My step dads ex wife father was a great man, and he treated me like a blood relative
What makes me so angry is that everyone steps on eggshells around my step sister through fear of her cutting them off
This man died without seeing any of his great grand children, and out of the four of them I think the eldest was about 10 when he died
The reason my step sister cut off her grandad is because of the messy divorce, after her wedding they set up a BBQ for him to see her and he didn’t go
So, that was it
Follow it? Not sure I do half the time!
Well I don’t have this problem anymore as most of my family has passed on. All that’s left is my sister, her husband and two kids, one uncle, and two cousins. I don’t hear from my uncle or cousins much, only my sister and her husband.
You really miss them when they are gone, even though you couldn’t get along when they were alive.
my sister thinks she is superior perhaps because she went to university and has a successful business.
did she get raised by psycho?
did she almost get murdered?
did she get raped by many men? (a sl ut can get raped too) :0
did she ever go hungry to bed at night and unable to afford medication or food?
did she get bullied every day for being ugly dumn and a who re? (i never had sex for money)
infact what has she experienced for hardship?
she had a happy easy life.
always popular and well off.
i love her unconditionally but i feel uncomfortable around her because she treats me as if i am less than her and her family and its really not ok but i cant really do anything but avoid her yet i cant do that much because im a aunty and my nephew thinks he is superior too.
they are soooo stuck up.
i do not think they are down to earth or have much real life experience.
There is no reason to treat people superior just because you have been to university.
I have been to university and there are a lot of dumbasses there. Many stupid people
Yes, it’s difficult to cut off family when you love deep down. I cant.
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