I haven’t talked to my sister or my dad in months. I kinda wanna keep it that way. I wish the lack of contact stopped the rumination’s but I still can’t stop thinking about them. I think I’m gonna start working again soon so hopefully occupying my time stops the obsessing.
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I no longer talk to my niece. When i flew down to Florida one year, she refused to drive up to visit her “crazy aunt”. That really hurt my feelings. I also have issues with the disrespect she shows her grandparents and mother. She’s 24 and thinks she knows everything, and she has a very sharp tongue when people disagree with her. I’ll talk to her when she actually becomes an adult.
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Me and my nephews just grew apart and now have almost zero contact. I lived with both of them for three years in my 30’s and was kinda close to them but over the years our lives went separate ways and I can go a couple of years at a time without talking to them. Last time I talked to either of them was 3 or 4 years ago. I only occasionally talk to my stepmom on the phone and exchange emails with my stepdad about twice a year. For years I was talking to my stepdad and my mom every week and visiting them once a week and calling my stepmom once a week.
The only contact I have with a family member is my sister and I only see her about once every two weeks. I talk to my sister in Mexico about once every two or three months.
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I cut my brother out of my life when I was 20, and I’m 45 now. Fck that guy, sick piece of 
. I used to occasionally have to see him at family gatherings, but with both of our parents deceased as of eleven years ago I have had zero contact with him since 2013. As far as I’m concerned I don’t have a brother.
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I don’t want anything to do with my dad. For plenty of reasons.
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Not so much my immediate family but I have a first cousin that burned more bridges than other people built for him so I cut him off. Matters how people treat each other and blood ties mean very little to me.
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yes, my aunt Paula…I was delusional years ago and made her mad and she has never reached out again…sad really…I love my aunt Paula and she’s almost gone now. sad
I don’t talk to my Dad out of pure choice and my life is a lot better without him. Haven’t talked to him in 3 years.
My older sister has always been off with me even when we were very young. I would go out of my way to try and talk to her and she would tease/insult me (even when she was a young adult). Used to upset me but doesn’t anymore. My younger brother I really don’t like/get on with and we don’t talk at all. He’s very aggressive, entitled and just not very nice.
Sometimes I get a bit down about my siblings but I remember that we don’t get on and that I’m not really missing much from not having them in my life.
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