How are you more ”nice”?

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I think in the world most people are nice in some way, i just dont feel like im nice.
My friends like me but i dont like me.

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Why don’t you think you are nice ? You seem nice to me.

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I dont feel nice.

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Actions are nice. If you do something positive you should feel well about it. It doesen’t have to be something spectacular. Just smiling to someone or saying hi is a positive gesture or anything along those lines, even just whishing someone well.

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How do you do this in real life?

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You seem very nice @Yellowdiamond

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I grt a lot of people tell me I am nice and stuff. But I never feel as if I am a good person.

You have to tell yourself that you are a good person. It’s affirmations. When you do something nice or good, tell yourself, in your head, “see I AM a good person!”

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I try to be nice to those I respect. With others I try to maintain a minimum level of courtesy unless I feel it’s wasted.

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I’ve had multiple bosses at multiple jobs tell me I’m too nice. People don’t respect me because of it, and it creates problems for me. But I just can’t be mean or not as nice. I care about others. I don’t want to hurt anyone

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I am nice to ppl who deserve it. Some ppl just need to be ignored.

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I was to nice with people on pof. Wasn’t assertive enough and put there feelings before my own.

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No such thing as too nice. I root on anyone who looks past the money trail or doesen’t have the “this has to benefit me or I won’t bother” mentality.

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Yeah. I’ve always tried to help others while working. It’s just who I am. It’s hard to change that.

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I feel its harder to be nice when feeling bad.

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I try to be kind and courteous to others until they give me a reason not to be and even then I try to remain cordial.

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I’m a cold person. Warm people make me physically ill. I’m working on it.

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I try to see the others viewpoint before I start an argument. When I do that, I’m not as hard on people.

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In reality… I dont think I am very nice at all.More like a tirant… I hate to say it, but it is true…

I almost failed kindergarden , because I felt that the other children where stupid and mean…

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I actually don’t know what makes me nice. Maybe, that my intentions towards people are good.

Also there was a quote about how you treat yourself sets the standard for how you treat others.

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I can’t help myself, I am often nice. Its unhealthy though when you can’t assert yourself.

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