Has someone in your past ghosted you?
If you dont know what ghosted means, it basically means being cut off without warning.
I personally dont like being ghosted especially when we had a prior relationship.
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Yes many times.
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yeah, and I’ve done it too.
I figure if they cared, they know my number.
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I started having some mental issues towards the end of High School and I got ghosted by my group of friends from the middle school days.
When you don’t want to party anymore and/or you have mental health issues, lots of young people in my city won’t want anything to do with you.
At this point, I’m okay with being close with my family members and having a supporting community here.
Them “ghosting” me has forced me to learn and actually enjoy being alone most of the time.
I hope you have a good day house of Stark!
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People come and go, just they way they are
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So many times I have lost count. Mostly on dating sites.
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Most people who ghost me don’t really matter to me.
But the fact this one person ghosted me after we spent years of hanging out really bothers me for some reason.
But maybe @TheCanuk is right, I stopped “partying” and that person realized that and dropped me because of that. I still find it rude though.
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yeah some people can be really harsh, go all out being a friend and they just drop you
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I guess so. It’s a bit more complicated than that though.
I felt I was doing all the contacting, and I stopped to see what would happen. This person never contacted me and it has now been 5 years. I feel upset that basically this person must have been too polite to tell me to go away. I am foolish.
It must be me right? Since I have not made any new friends IRL since.
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Yeah, once or twice. I’d prefer they tell me to screw off, but no such luck.
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I was ghosted by my therapist.
She didn’t show up for our regularly scheduled appointment,
Then wouldn’t accept any of my calls.
After leaving her several messages she never contacted me again,
She just disappeared.
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I was once. It really hurt my feelings. Then I saw her again a couple years later. She tried to act like nothing happened. She even tried to hug me and say she was so glad to see me. I wasn’t as friendly as her. I’m not letting her do it again
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I remember all the times I was put through hell over them. You did what you wanted to now let me go.
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I’ve been ghosted by close childhood friends and by a therapist once.
I hate to admit this but I’ve ghosted a few people in my life also.
Sad.
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To be fair I did ghost a friend I met in treatment. He’s always so manic and never stops talking so when we talk it’s just me listening. I should have told him I can’t handle it but I didn’t want to hurt his feelings so I stopped returning his calls. Only time I’ve done that, but I don’t feel great about it. I’ve wondered if I should contact him to have someone to text, but he’s all output and no input.
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Yes a therapist kinda ghosted me by telling me never to come back. Most of my friends though have stuck by me through the hard times. My friend TJ who also has schizophrenia he’s a friend I met through a friend and he’s living his best life
Your therapist told you to never come back?! That’s harsh. Was it because of your sz diagnosis?
I hadn’t just yet been diagnosed. She told me and my mom to go to the emergency and to not come back because I was being hostile towards her
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Oh. Ok. Well if you were hostile, she had a reason to say that. Hopefully you have a good therapist now
I’ve been ghosted by a few childhood friends. It sucked. I thought we’d always be friends.
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