My friend and I were inseperable for 3 years. Then I got this illness and saw her once after that. She was supposed to visit me that Christmas, and left me waiting an hour at the bus station and she did not show up. I never heard from her again. That was a tough thing to deal with, and I was only 19.
I was ghosted by an ex case manager who retired. She was like a 2nd mother to me, so I started calling her after she retired. It got to be a daily thing. Last November I called, and she said she wasn’t up to par, and for me to stop calling her, and she would call me when she felt better. She never called me back, though she calls one of my friends I talk to.
Yes, I was well and truly ghosted by my husband and son upon diagnosis. That was seven years ago. I don’t know where they are so cannot contact them to let my son know that I am doing so much better now.
I’m very sorry to hear that
I think my current therapist ghosted me.
I got ghosted and emotion ally let that person die mentally to cope with the loss and make life bareable. Its a weird response but it was necessary and I’m not balling my eyes out everyday. He had a kid apparently with sum chick he cheated on me with. He came back up and it literally just reminded me of the pain and hurt and reminded me that I was not thos completely off the wall ■■■■. I adored him and smothered him he always ■■■■■■ up on me and I found out .
Anyway, I have a weird feeling i love him but like an annoying brother that you can’t help but love. I love him if anything ever really happened to him id die emotionally i wouldn’t want to live. But I have a sense of freedom not being romantically bound almost like my.being with him was my reason for being and I have kids now. I wouldn’t want to put my babies on the back burner for a guy and I can admire him from afar.
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