I’m not gonna take it anymore. Why are friends all such ego driven assholes??? I’m one of the most generous non demanding person you’ll ever meet, and I can be friendly as well… sick of being taken advantage of for this ■■■■. Not gonna take it anymore. If I have to cut assholes out of my life so be it.
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I cut a few people out of my life and new people appeared.
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Cut them out!! You deserve better 
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My friend acts so freaking oblivious. He’s like WHAAAAAATDDD IIIII DOOOO??? He doesn’t understand that every time he takes advantage of me, I take note of it in my head. He uses his stupidity as an excuse for treating me shitty. OH IM SUCH AN IDIOT IM ALLOWED TO BE AN ASSHOLE. Is pretty much his approach to it all… well maybe you are an idiot, but it ain’t an excuse for being an asshole ;).
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I’m too desperate to cut people out of my life
they do me though. and it hurts.
I ve been cut out too. It hurts but i learned.
I’m broke right now and he will use that as a way of treating me even more shitty!!! even Though I’ve wasted more money on our friendship than he has by a large margin, he will use a passive aggressive, very non-generous, game playing, meager rations at a time over the time I’m broke until the next check comes and be even more of an ahole to me the whole time. U know what, don’t need anything from you so I’ll be better off alone for now ty very much.
It sounds like this relationship is doing you more harm than good.
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well, I was kinda concerned about you dropping 38 dollars on a sweatshirt
I know it’s only money, and I go through it many times too.
Can you do free stuff?
Friends don’t keep tabs or cost money to have.
Those are called something else.
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I never did but he’s an ■■■■■■■. So yeah you’re right maybe he’s not a friend of mine
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Thanks 
for making me feel ■■■■■■■ terrible though 
Just what I needed right now
Wasn’t meant to make you feel terrible.
They’re called ‘fair weather’ friends- when they’re only around when you have money to spend on them.
Like when people are only outside when the sun is shining, when the weather is bad, (no money) they aren’t around.
It stands to reason that when you are keeping ‘tabs’ on a friend, it’s because they aren’t keeping up their share of the friendship.
So they don’t seem like much of a friend?
They’re usually called something else- like not much of a friend- ? right?
Why would this make you feel bad?
Sorry if I didn’t explain it better.
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Sorry I thought you meant like I wasn’t a true friend to him if I was keeping tabs. Total misunderstanding lol.
Thanks for clarifying.
I feel less bad now thanks.
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In fairness I’ve had way less generous friends in past. He’s a lot better than past friends in these regards. Maybe I’m overreacting to this but I’m just mad.
I’m in a real bad mood and nothing I say right now should be taken too literally.
It can make you feel good to buy drinks for your friends or something else
maybe I’m buying their friendship?
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II’m sorry too😔.
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He has just as much to lose as I do. I feel he’s taking advantage of me because he feels He can and it makes me feel weak and vulnerable . Very similar situation to you buying drinks here. My friend is a true friend that he cares bout me and all but sometimes does a bad job of showing it?? Having conflicting thoughts now. I just feel he likes to assert his power and be greedier than me because he’s ego driven. That’s just how I see it.
They use the spear of heartless-ness and the shield of pity. I hate people like that.
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