I used to be very thin and was praised as attractive for it. Extreme hunger from psych meds changed that. I went through a period of feeling utterly unsightly due to weight gain. Nowadays? I really don’t give a ■■■■. I’m not on this earth to be considered visually pleasing to shallow people, lol. I’m actually glad the way I look now weeds those people out from my awareness.
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Hey luckily i havent put on weight yet. I am taking Zyprexa i walk everyday.
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Coming down in weight doesn’t help me go back in time
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For those of you that have put on alot of weight, Apple Cider Vinegar helps. I took it for something else, and I lost like 15 pounds a month. I had to stop once I was at 140 lbs lol
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I am getting a buffalo head.
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I’m so sorry, @LilyoftheValley. That must have been so hard on you. It’s especially hard when they are little.
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Yeah I was once semi-attractive on the outside but weight gain and aging took care of that. But when I was attractive on the outside I was as ugly as crap on the inside. I “look” better there.
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I felt the rejection on dating websites.
Hard to deal with paying to be disappointed
The worst was when you get the auto messages back saying thanks but no thanks.
That was horrible, as they basically were judging you by a photo, and not even willing to talk to see if we had compatible
My mother says I am attractive, but she would say that! Guess she is just trying to raise my confidence
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I am obese but I don’t realize it. When I see my body, it feels like I am slim. Others tell me I’m obese. But I still feel attractive
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I think my appearance might be fixing to decline. I might need dentures soon. It ought to be interesting.
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the most attractive weight for a male is a bmi of 26 with a body fat percentage of 16%
Going for that, give me some years 8)
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I came to a revelation. My body has feelings. So that means my body is a physical look with feelings. So that means I’m physically good looking, cos it doesn’t feel nice to say I’m ugly to myself, so it can’t be right.
Even if tonnes of people think I’m ugly, I don’t think so.
Likewise for the rest of humanity. And their physical looks.
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An old ex girlfriend got in touch with me a few years ago and I suddenly realized what a loss I had suffered in looks and personality. It really threw me into a tailspin. I’m never going to fully get over the change. But I’ve still got special talents.
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I am sorry @LilyoftheValley
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Thanks @Wave 1515
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I had wicked acne. After seeing the same psychiatrist for years, at age 22, I asked him to help with the acne. After three weeks, I was suddenly handsome.
I am 71 now. I still look at women, but I can’t remember why.
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My cousin has a girl. She’s tall and lanky now. She’s a teenager. She wears glasses way too big for her face but you can just tell when she grows up she’s going to be gorgeous. She was beautiful as a little girl. You were probably awkward as a teen. But I think you’re very cute now.
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Thank you 
. You can’t please everyone
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How much do you take every day?
I’ve had a crush on an “ugly” guy. He was a humanitarian and very intelligent. The humanitarian side of him really impressed me. I also liked his intelligent side of course but it was his kindness that I really liked.
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Thank you!
Yes I was awkward and didn’t fit in anywhere.
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