Have you ever thought

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I actually look okay.

Just not in the mirror.

:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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If I am understanding you correctly, then I think a lot of us are more critical of the way we look than we need to be. I think people around us would say we are more attractive than we feel we are. :thinking:

I know I feel that way all the time.

Also, I think we look different in pictures than in real life.

Just my thoughtsā€¦

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I always feel I loof worse on camera/photo/mirror than in real life. And in real life Iā€™m just ofk ā€¦so on camera I look basically like :poop:

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Iā€™m not good looking I need to dye my hair and lose 100 pounds or more then Iā€™d look ok

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Doesnā€™t matter how you look it matters more how you feel about how you look

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I might stop looking in the mirror.

Just for shaving my face lol.

I feel OK when I donā€™t look in the mirror.

Mirror looking becomes obsessive

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I wonder what would happen if you had a change your appearance in a digital mirror :mirror: to something more ā€œobjectivelyā€ good looking? Would you pull more girls/guys with your actual looks lol

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me, every time I look in the mirror lol

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Good looks can sometimes make a person more confudent.

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Same :joy:

Enough cupcakes :cupcake::drooling_face:

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Yea me too. I am sort of better off not looking much

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Yeah, I donā€™t look in the mirror any more than I have to. It feels weird.

If we are confident then we radiate out to others ā€œgood looksā€

I think others can notice if we are confident or not.

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I look really awful. I looked better a few months ago.

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I had chronic social esteem problems in my early 20sā€¦ I mean I couldnā€™t function at allā€¦ I got told by a really good occupational therapist when I was 25, fake it to make it! and I still have social anxiety Iā€™m better at faking it to making itā€¦ And its lead me in a good wayā€¦

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I am a lot better with this than i used to be. I used to have real bad body dysmorphia. Thought i looked like a monster. I still struggle with my image but its not extreme like it was.

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Happy to hear that Bobbily :))

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I think that self esteem can make a person look attractive

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I look like shi t on camera too. Haha

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Yea I agree. Self esteem or confidence does make a difference to attraction.

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I look really awful too.

Thatā€™s 1 reason Iā€™m gonna make a few changes to my life.

Iā€™m focusing on my wellbeing thou but better looks may follow.

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