Does someone else consider himself ugly?

I changed so much from the start of my illness,even then I could have pass as some point handsome.Now I cant look my self in mirror.

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My appearance has changed drastically also, since taking these meds.
But you are not ugly @anon70049667.

I just look tired and overweight.

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I notice that I look tired and overweight as well. I think my stress shows itself. Still, I feel that I am reasonably attractive. Not like, over the top beautiful, but not ugly either.

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my looks are dependent on my fitness. gotta get my bodyfat lower probably to look decent and maybe put on some muscle.

I don’t look in the mirror much anymore, sometimes I think im ugly, but probably im just average.

I stopped drinking, so my motivation is returning to work out. which helps my looks a little. but really losing my hair has helped me overcome my vanity of my youth and not worry about my looks. it’s kind of humorous to me, im just a face in the crowd now, and don’t stand out at all. incognito like I like.

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Yes,my face looks tired too.Because I feel tired of worries.

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Mainly because of my obesity. I have grey hair a bit and dry skin from dehydration. I blame meds and stress from illness.

I have problem with hair I think it is reason to my ugliness only if I can make it beautiful I 'll be beautiful forever

I’m not overweight but have bad skin

hair ok, teeth ok, and sex ok.

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My face is ugly but i have never been good looking. The rest of me is in good shape though.

I consider myself overweight, so eh. I don’t really care though

Although,I’ve never seen sch people looking good.It just lowers our chance for a women/men dating.

I am overweight and don’t have a nice face, but only my body has changed. I’ve thought about plastic surgery (face), but I won’t really do it because the risk of blood clots is too great.

You look fine.Why change it?

I never went to school reunions.I don’t want my schoolmates see me like this.

When I was a teenager I considered myself to be terribly ugly, downright hideous, but that was the depression talking. I normally am not one to self-diagnose, but I think it was bad enough to be considered body dysmorphic disorder, idk.

I don’t see myself like that anymore, though. Other than my balding head I am pretty confident in my appearance. I think soon I’m just going to have all of my hair buzzed off, just go full-on bald. Maybe that would be better than having half-hair. We’ll see if I have the nerve to go through with it.

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My face looks bloated because I gained weight on meds. But for a man good looks are not essential. It’s more important to behave honorably, to fight for good causes and protect the weak.

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I feel ugly when I’m depressed or angry
Otherwise I’m not too bad looking :blush:

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What matters is how you carry yourself. Posture is important, and fitness is a plus, as well as social grace. Looks are not that important beyond basic grooming.

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I don’t feel very attractive. I never have. I don’t have the motivation to really groom myself very much. I have kind of a beard but i can’t really grow a good beard. It’s kind of scrawny and not evenly colored but has patches of blond and gray in it. I feel like a goon.

I’m OK.
Nothing extraordinary.