Going from attractive to unattractive

[Mr_Hope]

In a completely dark room I look just about as good as anyone

[bluebutterfly]

I was also good looking when i was young, now i am bald and don’t care about how i dress.

I live on the past, all the beautiful women i have been in relationships with. They are gone and im never going to have a partner again - i think and accept. Im going to be single the rest of my life.

[Wave]

You are not the only one brother.
I used to be a handsome attractive guy.
Now I’m just another fat and tired looking old guy.

It’s demoralizing.

[matthewj]

Women still approach me although I could lose 20 pounds

[matthewj]

When I was younger I’d have girls tell me I was so hot I was spoiled never had to initiate with women but women in their 30s don’t care about looks.

[anon1466656]

I loved this one, haha

First rate comedy haha

[Loke]

Women don’t care as much (in general) about looks as men do. They’re more interested in a guy’s heart.

[Loke]

I think you’re a good looking dude. You seriously think you need to lose weight? In your pics you look average weight

[Mr_Hope]

Even if they are vegetarian? sorry…bad joke

[matthewj]

I’m 20 pounds overweight but it doesn’t really bother me but I would prefer to be 20 pounds lighter I’m 6”2 and I’d like to get under 200 pounds.

[Loke]

I think you look fine but if you want to lose weight for your health then do it.

[matthewj]

Yea I look okay I’ve been obese before on zyprexa

[Loke]

Gotta love the medicine weight gain.

[LilyoftheValley]

I’m sorry about your son @SkinnyMe . That’s so awful. My brother died at 3 and a half years old along with his best friend and my mother is still hurting. It was a very long time ago

[Loke]

That’s very sad. My grandmother buried my grandfather and my mother within less than a year of each other. Idk how she survived. My grandfather died July 1989 and my mother March 1990.

My grandmother married another widow in 1993. He was just like my blood. We all loved him. He died in January 2008 I think. So my grandmother is a widow twice over.

[daydreamer]

mate i hear what you are saying, we are ugly now and we need to embrace it

[anon4362788]

I feel unattractive now. I decided to do something about it. Every morning I wash my face and do my new skin care. Tyen do it again before bed. My face looks better and I don’t feel as ugly.

Lack of self care made my skin gray and awful looking.

[anon94176359]

I have been looking after my feet more. Lots of moisturiser etc. Makes me feel nicer all round

[Dan0131]

I still have IT. But I don’t know for how much longer. I’m getting fatter every day, it’s demoralizing.

[SacredNeigh7]

My tits are a touch saggy yet tiny, my stomach sticks out as much as my boobs (sometimes more) ha ha ha ha

My face is starting to sag and I have those grumpy lines from mouth down towards chin.

I want a facelift.

I want a tummy tuck and a boob life or job.

I want to loose a couple of kg.

I used to be fatter though when I was on olanzapine I was around 80 kg for 160 Cm.

I will see if I can post a fat picture of me on selfie thread but I was 70 kg on photo.

I think my boobs sag because I had silicon when I was twenty and that stretched them then I removed silicon three years later.

Thankfully there is still a bit of fat and it’s not just skin.

I used to be pretty slim most of the time before medication.

I am trying to do what I can with my appearance or what I can afford.

Hopefully I can afford Botox between my eyebrows but only cheapest one that doesn’t do as much.

I was bullied as a teenager for being ugly.
By boys.

I was a bad stripper over twenty years ago.
I was not popular though and couldn’t really make much money.
Don’t know if it was enough for rent even that’s how little I made.

I just didn’t feel like myself and didn’t feel confident etc and was intoxicated etc
Didn’t have my aura true colours shining but just a piece of flesh empty n feeling awful.