That’s prolly just her personality. I have a couple cats that love pets, but hate getting picked up. I have one that loves all of us but hides when people come over. Don’t worry, the vets will be gentle with her. They know what they are doing.
Yah, she’ll be alright. There are many ways they can examine and treat skittish cats with minimal handling. Vets are trained to do that. She’ll be alright.
The thing that worries me is that the receptionist or vet tech over the phone said that most likely the Vet will be able to examine her unless she is on the verge of having a panic attack!
Then they won’t be able to examine her and they will send her back home with a sedative prescription.
I really hope you are right and the Vet is trained and equipped to handle a nervous and skittish cat.
It’s traumatic, but necessary. Cats are resilient and respond well to aftercare.
Get some treats to give her when you.pick her up, then in the car, then at home. If you follow this after-treat each time, she’ll associate the visit with that.