Do you think you are attractive?

I feel like an attractive person,

Even with silver hairs coming in and little wrinkles starting to grow.

Some days I feel ugly, but overall I feel pretty good about myself.

How about you?

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I used to be. Now I’m not but I’m okay with that.

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I don’t feel “ugly” but I don’t feel particularly pretty. I wear glasses and today this girl was like I should get laser eye surgery so I can be pretty … I feel pretty comfortable being me. Not trying to be someone I’m not…

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When did you start feeling unattractive?

Did it have anything to do with your diagnosis?

I feel like a big ugly zeppelin. I know I should think differently, but I’ve only ever had two women actually attracted to me and I guess that’s how I’m judging my attractiveness.

I feel like I look like a freak.

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You don’t look like a freak,

And you can’t base how attractive you feel by the way other people feel.

It comes from inside.

When I felt unattractive I would compliment myself in the mirror,

It really helped my self esteem.

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I used to be. Now i just look old.

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You do not.

You’re a beautiful woman and should tell yourself that more often.

That’s what I have to do.

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Don’t feel I am particularly good looking but I think parts of my personality make me attractive

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I’ve been told I am, and I’ve been told I’m not. I have been hit on many times at bars by both men and women. So maybe I am. I don’t really know, or care.

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Difference is you look nice.

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I do feel good about myself but it ties into my psychosis. I never felt good about myself before. When I was being taken to 5150 a police officer asked me if I was from New York and I called myself a total California girl in shock. No one else thinks I am because I am not a skinny blonde. lol Oh well.

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Yeah,

Not all California girls are blond and skinny,

I’m proof of that.

@anon4362788, we just have Resting Biitch Face.

It can bring our self esteem down, but you have to fight it.

You’ve seen the pictures, I’ve got it bad.

I think trying to look nice helps.

Do you wear makeup?

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I think I’m moderately attractive. I was good looking about 40 pounds ago. I still am pretty successful with dating apps though.

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I think I look okay. I’m not stunning but I don’t put a lot of effort into my appearance lol.

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You look good and skinny to me. I wish I had your legs so I could look good in shorts and dresses too.

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Thanks for the compliment!

I love my legs, I think they’re one of my best physical attributes.

But anyone can wear shorts and skirts,

They’re fun and summer-y.

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Mostly because of the weight gain. I’ve gained well over 100lbs. I’m getting very wrinkly and I have age spots on my face.
I used to thrive on the attention before

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I feel like I’m attractive but not really really attractive. I used to think I was ugly but not anymore.

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Sometimes. I don’t have a lot. Mainly eyeliner and lipstick.

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