Sounds like masturbation/sex addiction, hypersexuality. I had that on Abilify. I think there is therapy and meds that reduce sex drive. And no I didn’t watch porn or masturbate when I had a gf but I think some ppl think differently than me.
Yeah. Not as much but when I was married I still had a high sex drive so it was just one of those things. We’d often watch porn together but I could take it or leave it. I’m old now and that is good in my book.
Used to with the ex wife. And she hated it. Almost as if i was not enough for her. But in all honesty - i just wanted a quick release without all the foreplay. Jacking off is way lower on my agenda tho these days.
I think it can be a part of a healthy relationship in moderation, but over 2 hours is excessive.
As an outsider, what I see is that you both appear to have opposite sexual needs. This isn’t always a bad thing, most people are not perfectly matched and will meet somewhere in the middle.
I make a bit of an assumption based on what you mentioned about your own tendencies though, that you don’t have particularly strong need for intimacy. Meeting in the middle can be difficult for couples that are on opposite sides of the spectrum though.
I think you should talk about it. Find out why his tendencies are what they are. Try not to judge him when you do. Assess if his reasoning is something that might be concerning to you now or in the future.
The point is, it’s vital to a healthy relationship to communicate. Especially about these kinds of things. I say have a chat!
I do but i just use it as a means to an end to get one out and on with the day lol. High sex drive can be a nuisance honestly. Like i dont wanna have sex everday that makes it too routine and ends up a bit boring and tiring lol. HJs are welcome though too
Moderation is cool but excess just consumes you
