The father of my children has had a porn addiction since I first met him and I have just tried to ignore it. At this point, I would prefer him to do that than have sex with him. (Yes we have a weird relationship) but I despise porn. I especially despise what he was looking at today which appeared to be an woman unaware that she was being filmed undressing. Ick! Let me know your thoughts on this and Let’s try our best to keep this PG.
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My first thought is no. However, my cheating ex husband was looking at a lot of pornography during our short 2 year marriage.
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I am sorry to hear that @HollyHobbie! I have been pretty hang loose about the porn thing although I despise most porn he watches. He watches it all practically.
My wife and I don’t care…but we aren’t addicted to porn. Just every now and then.
Lots of women like porn too.
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No. Only jealous women think this way, and while any addiction is unhealthy, so is jealousy.
I’ve watched porn with my partners before, have known my partners watch porn alone, and have never felt like it was a competition or threatened by it.
I think it’s a matter of a woman’s low self esteem, and jealous nature which makes this a bad thing in a relationship. The porn itself isn’t.
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I’m not a woman but I have clicked on this topic three times to see responses and I feel compelled to give my answer. The answer is no for me.
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I disagree that it is a low self esteem thing. As a matter of fact I think that I can do better and be in a healthier relationship with someone that I am more attracted to than who I am with.
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Ok, but I don’t think he’s cheating because he’s watching a woman on screen fck someone else.
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I personally don’t like to watch porn alone it does nothing for me but wouldn’t mind watching it with him, I kinda find it a turn on to watch him get turned on while watching.
Is this weird I like it?
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No @Turtle44. I have watched Cinemax before and enjoyed it. I have peeped my partner’s videos and usually been horrified. We don’t have the same taste anyway. He likes weird rough stuff and all the viral stuff about celebrities being filmed without their knowledge. It is a terrible violation and ups his creep factor to me.
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My gf doesnt care if i watch it.
Hey its better than hookers 
I mostly watch vanilla stuffs. So its pretty tame lol
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I was gonna stay out of the thread because I’m male but so many guys have commented, I’ll comment I guess. I mean if it’s just naughty stuff like cheerleaders or busty women it probably wouldn’t bother me, like would you consider them thinking about another woman and getting turned on cheating? I think porn is just one step away from that.
However the porn that scares me is the stuff that gets into pain and bondage and videos that are like faked situations of girls being “forced.” Or like choking and stuff. If I knew someone who was into that I’d be a little concerned. Like indulging fantasies that aren’t possible to live out.
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I don’t consider watching porn cheating or a big deal at all.
What concerns me about your situation is that he’s looking at some weird videos.
Like the woman undressing?
That’s creepy.
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I hate porn.
My girlfriend hates porn.
I have drastically limited myself to it.
I just think it alternates ones ability to fully love and appreciate their partners true beauty.
And, really, let’s be honest, what it takes to get people off these days is totally ridiculous, and can damage ones psychology — enough sex in the world, it’s everywhere and everyone abuses the privilege…
Anyway ---- I guess that I’m saying porn can destroy your life
Porn is like being addicted to crack, for example your drug of choice for free on yer cell phone, in yer pocket whenever you want in it
Its like any other drug — spirals into more hardcore things ---- bleh 
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Porn screws with my mind but I watch it anyway.
It’s kind of addicting
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No, I don’t consider it cheating, but my husband and I both think porn is gross and degrading. We don’t watch it.
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The woman only or men only thing never works on this forum 
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My ex wife was against me viewing internet porn yet she continuously cheated on me during our marriage
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My boyfriend masturbates to porn one or two times a week he told me.
Ontop of that we usually have sex one or two times a week.
I know of a man who is against porn which is usual but he thinks it’s degrading and abusive to women.
I am not jealous.
I do think the sex industry and porn industry can be destructive and ugly though.
I masturbated with a dildo in a porno (solo)and was paid only a thousand Sweden crown which is nothing.
All the other girls were getting paid minimum ten thousand for masturbation.
I later saw that this amateur porno was sold along with a porno mag in newsagents across the country.
They were making a lot of money while it wasn’t worth my while.
What it paid for my lunch?
I didn’t have a makeup artist and had to do my own makeup and i suck at it.
The lighting and environment and camera and just everything was worse than b grade.
I don’t masturbate or watch porn.
I don’t give my boyfriend a hard time for watching it.
He knows it can be a nasty industry.
He was in porno himself when he was young.
But not solo with girls.
My boyfriend and I only do missionary so maybe he likes different variety which he can see on porn.
I’m a lazy lover.
I could only ride one man wildly and comfortably and that was father of our dead son.
Anyone else I tried to ride felt uncomfortable awkward n not right.
I can’t ride my boyfriend.
We have done doggy style but I prefer missionary and for me to lay there enjoying while he does all the work.ha ha ha ha ha
I would mind if my boyfriend video camed and sex chatted on video call as that’s sexual interaction and cheating.
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Sorry to hear that @Wave.
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