The guys here talk a lot about porn and masturbation. So why don’t we discuss it?
Do you enjoy porn? How often do you “Jill-off”?
I noticed a real decrease in wanting sex with my meds. My husband is bothered by this, though he doesn’t have a huge sex drive either. We haven’t had intercourse in almost 2 years though I’ve blown him or jerked him off.
Sometimes I watch porn though not often. Kids have to not be home and I have to be alone. I don’t watch it with the husband at all.
Yeah, it seems like the meds really kill the desire to have sex. I notice I orgasm just fine, they’re still ejoyable…but I don’t feel the urge to even try anymore. Even during. It’s like…blah.
I have no real interest in sex. I try to watch porn sometimes, and it doesn’t really do anything for me. When watching, I always find myself wishing I were watching YouTube videos or Netflix, so I watch for at most 5 minutes, then watch or do something else. I’m starting to realize that it’s okay not to have any sex drive. It’s just part of who I am. I’ve never mastrubated, nor have I ever had an orgasm. This sex stuff just isn’t my thing, I suppose.
I’m done with sex, and my husband knows this. He takes care of his business in private. Sounds horrible but all the meds I’ve taken have shut down my desire or urges to have sex. We still make out and cuddle, but no more sexy time.
I dont watch porn at all. I had a really good sex drive before. Now i cant be bothered. I think it is both meds and having trauma around sex. My psychoses often start with thinking im going to hell for having had sex, that’s kind of a libido killer. Oh well. I dont care much, if i ever have a partner again i hope it comes back.
My (now ex) husband and I used to have a marriage practically based on porn. He was into it when I met him. He turned me on to it and I enjoyed it. (I liked looking at the girls). He knew this and it didn’t bother him. He even encouraged it.
I don’t look at porn at all any more partly due to my religion, and partly due to my asexuality, from all my meds.
Ive never used porn. I used to master bate until I turned 16 then stopped cuz I thought it was sinful. I still have orgasms sometimes though like twice a month about. I had less while on abilify but on vraylar and less antidepressants my sex drive kind of increased. I’ve never actually had sex and I’m already 28 years old because I believe Christianity discourages it outside of marriage
I don’t have the same level of sex drive too. I’m not too worried about it. A guy can get sex from the women in the assisted living center where I stay. I shy away from it, though, because these women might not understand when I said we should go our separate ways. They think I have prospects.
I don’t think people in porn are good looking usually (personal preference). I don’t get turned on when I see some terrible woman giving a blow job. I do watch it to learn tricks or get some creative ideas
Without medication I am hypersexual. With medication I am hypersexual. My partner is the most boring guy ever. He’s terrible in bed if it happens once a month, I initiate it and it’s not even good. I rather do it myself.
My drive took a dive after some meds so hubby suffered a bit for a while but he took it like a man. I go through stages. But I think it’s like that for alot of women. I’m not into porn.