Do you still think you are desirable?

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damn my situation, relationship and illness ruined me for life.

I do not feel desirable anymore. My self esteem is ruined.

If I leave, I think of the future and do not see hope even 5 years later to meet someone I will like and get along with. Or someone i will be happy with or have a family. In my hometown, everyone is broke in my circle of friends and family.

I have not met a guy I think highly of.

If I leave, I will be completely alone for a long time. I don’t like to have sex with strangers in clubs or jump into bed on a date.
I am old fashioned.

But staying here like this, alone and bored. What kind of life is this? I am a potato, gaining weight and eating crap.

I have a MI, I got vitiligo, almost 30, overweight… can not have kids what the hell!!!

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I too want to kill this unfair world and replace it with a better.

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It’s frustrating because now even though I’m not overweight anymore I still have stretch marks and I’m self conscious about them. So I guess in that aspect I feel less desirable than before. I had a really great body until stupid Risperidone. And today I found out that Zoloft basically messed up my bladder and either triggered an inflammatory disease in me or messed up my pelvic muscles to where I need physical therapy to fix them. I’m so sick of medications destroying my body.

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I got a bunch of stretch marks on my legs too and they are visible :frowning_face: after gaining 40 pounds on Latuda :frowning_face: and I can not live without medication anymore.

I have no energy to exercise.

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Sorry to hear of your situation.

Wish we had a big get together place where we could all meet and give each other a big hug.

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I can tell from your posts that you’re unhappy with your current situation. I don’t know what to tell you to make it better though :frowning_face:

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I am at that point too. During the day I am so sleepy I can barely keep my eyes open to study much less work out. I lost 12 lbs over the summer basically because geodon removed my appetite completely so I was barely eating anything. Once off geodon I gained 2 lbs back :disappointed:

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I am on Geodon. But I gained 4 pounds this month it seems since quitting smoking, I am eating a lot more nowadays.
I have to persevere most of my life. That is all I have been doing. Waiting for things to get better. It is not.

I am sad I guess all the time.

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I think mosquitoes still find me desirable…

But on a serious note, from what I’ve seen @mermaid1 you seem like a very pretty and lovely woman. I’m sure you have many good qualities that will outshine your symptoms from mental illness, making you desirable to the right people :slight_smile:

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This damn friggin world is dividing us, those of us who need friends so much.

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The key words are right in the title of this thread-- think you are desirable.

That confidence in yourself is what will get someone interested in you.

It worked for me.

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Well I meet alot of men who say I am gorgeous, beautiful etc. mostly online especially. But I do not feel desirable. The men I care for are almost always unavailable.

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cant really judge myself…but I’m definitely not as desireable as before. ive gotten a couple girls flirting with me but their not the same kind of girls as before AND its not as much as before also. Its actually considered rare now for me…

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Desirable? Not in the slightest.

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I am desirable in the sense that people desire me dead or pain.

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Uh, yeh, I’m pushing fifty. I’m well past my best-before date and that’s just fine.

Oh well.

:blush:

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At 53 years old, I doubt it :confused:

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No I don’t think I am. If I was people would ask me out , outside the internet and that’s never happened. I’m not quite model material.

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Maybe they are shy? Or nervous? Or not sure how you feel about them?

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All of them ? :joy:

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