Lately I’m missing it a lot. Going to raves, staying up late, knowing new people, having new experiences…
And beeing young in general…
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Basically sums up my early to mid twenties (before SZA).
I miss it, yea.
But I suppose at some point things start to slow down. The path I was on wasn’t sustainable in the long run, and eventually I would have probably found myself settling down in some way— it’s just that SZA made that happen a lot sooner.
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Nope. Never really partied. 
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I don’t think I’ve ever been to a party.
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I had my share of partying. Some of it was fun but now I’ll take sobriety over partying any day.
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I’m just having my midlife crisis 10 years before I should lol…
I feel like I haven’t done enough of that, because sz and other stuff. And now, it would be the last years of beeing able to party like before.
I guess the thoughts will pass in a couple of days…
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Parties were hella fun back in the day. Now I don’t drink, dont do drugs, and don’t enjoy being around drunk people for the most part.
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When you’re younger you equate happiness with excitement.
When you’re older you equate happiness with peace and quiet!
So I don’t miss partying.
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I was never really into partying or boozing
Did hard drugs once and always have regretted it.
I was very depressed during that time in college
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I don’t partying got me in this state I believe.
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I hear you— SZ kinda throws a monkey wrench into the equation.
But honestly, it’s not a sustainable lifestyle. It’s not a good look to be partying when somebody’s like 45 (in my personal opinion anyways). It kinda just becomes a little sad and creepy, haha.
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At 57 I doubt I’ll be showing up at any Raves…well…maybe to pick up my daughters.
I think it’s cringeworthy if you are over 30 and still Raving.
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still partying…just twice a year…haha
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I miss DJing at gatherings. I was really great with vinyl and I’m good on CDJs. I don’t miss getting drunk off my arse and picked up by the po po for doing stupid things.
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My friends want me to go to nightclubs with them but I hate having to take meds at 11pm, they make me sleepy. No I don’t drink or do drugs, just having fun talking to people and making new connections. Last time I went to a party or a nightclub was in 2019. Well if it counts I went to a nightclub in Cuba with my brothers in 2022.
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Even before sz I was never one for crowds so I didn’t do a ton of partying. Got messed up with close friends all the time though. I do miss that.
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I should host a rave for all of us some night on SQFM. That could be fun.
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I never cared for parties. I went to one frat party in college, Sigma Rho I still remember. I enjoyed the level of drunkenness, back when I actually enjoyed binge drinking, but that was about it. It really wasn’t fun for me, never went to any other parties my remaining three years of undergrad.
I generally prefer my own company over that of a group of people. Though like @everhopeful was saying, older people tend to prefer peace over parties and such. Well, I do attend a lot of concerts, but I wouldn’t call that partying, especially considering I go alone most times. These days I very seldom drink.
I realize 43 years isn’t that old, but I’m no spring chicken lol.
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I got smashed the other day out in the city for an old friends 30th. Took way too many drugs. Feeling the repercussions the last few days since. Not doing that again for quite a while, if ever.
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Only kinda party I’ve been to is birthday party
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