The results came from the speed dating thing. Only 9 guys liked me out of the 45-50 I saw. That’s only 1 in 5. Made me realise that I’m not that liked. Out of those only one I liked actually liked me back.
That’s not normal like, that’s “I would like to go out with” like.
You could break the bank at monte carlo with those kind of odds.
That’s a great result ish.
If nine girls like me, then that would be a 900% increase on my mother.
congrats!
Out of 45 to 50 those are not bad numbers, 1 in 5 in a speed thing, without getting to know much about each other is pretty cool.
I don’t hate not being liked.
my mind already assumes that mostly everyone in real-life doesn’t like me.
things feel more safe and less stressful, that way.
Hey Princetastic, why is your name light grey when everyone elses is dark grey?
ssshhhhhh it’s a secret…
I usually don’t read your posts I’m sure it’s mutual.
Why is it light gray daze is also light grey on mine too…
… wow, that wasn’t nice to say at all. maybe I read that incorrectly, but that sounded very mean and it hurts.
how would you feel if I said the same thing to you?
oh wait, were you talking to @anon80629714 ? if so, then I’ll step aside silently… I’m no superhero…
You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time - John Lydgate
Some people have the nack of a popular appeal, but I’m not one of them. You’re doing better than me. I don’t worry about it. I’ve seen a lot of relationships that were worse than nothing. God help us if we get in one of those.
Ive learned the hard way mostly from the opposite sex that “u ain’t worth ■■■■ Joe.” So from constant abuse from people like this one girl who said “i didn’t really like hanging out i was only using u for food”. That was pretty much the last straw that said “these humans don’t give a ■■■■ about u.” Even guys have done it too. One “friend” i had said “ive tried being friends with u for 8 months but ur only good for…” ive learned my great purpose is to only be an expendable use for others. Lifes fun
wow, those are some very… honest people to have unfortunately befriended, my friend…
it’s like @flameoftherhine saying to me “sirBoring I was only your friend because you give me a lot of Likes.”
guess I’m lucky that I don’t make much real-life friends
Why would I waste time thinking about someone who doesn’t ‘like’ me?
Quality is more important than quantity.
As in the only reason it mattered this much is those I ticked didn’t like me back And that kind of hurt. I know it makes me self centrered or what not but I actually felt some spark but obviously I was wrong.
Yes but I don’t have much energy to waste hating you it’s just a waste of my precious energy. I pretty much don’t give a ■■■■.
In terms of dating that sounds better than the odds I would probably get. Just be happy and go out with the one that you like.
Sometimes I wonder if that is the stance that people have had with me. Like whatever friends I have stop talking to me when I leave an area. In the very least they don’t contact me and it seems like I have to make all the effort. I don’t do that nowadays so now I mostly stay home and barely talk to anybody.
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