I’ve always been comfortable but the last break up kinda unsettled me a bit. Kept telling me I was like ugly Betty and that if I put in the effort I could be pretty too. So basically I wasn’t good enough
That’s only one jerks opinion. I think most guys would find you attractive.
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I saw your pic in my thread “selfie if you got em show em” and you have nothing to be self conscious about! The person you were with was just self conscious cause they had someone that was confident and it made them abusive and that is what it was abuse!
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I don’t wear makeup much and obviously I’m not young anymore so It might show but I was comfortable and content until he said I’d feel better about myself if I changed how I looked
Never change for a man it’ll just make you regreat
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All the time, 24/7.
It’s beyond being about looks, though. I feel like I’m in the wrong body and like I can’t be in my own skin. Constantly uncomfortable, wanting to crawl out of this suit.
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I used to be very self conscious but not any more the last several years. Now I wake up looking like whatever in the mornings
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Its true some people are pretty enough that they never doubt that they look good, this is who instagram was created for
I accepted what I look like a long time ago, when I think back on my younger days, I had lots of dates, so even though I always felt I was ugly, I guess I was not all that bad looking, even at my age once or twice a year a gal shows interest.
@anon80629714 you are very good looking, none of us are perfect, so if you can embrace what you have and the confidence will show and others will see it and want to be with you.
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Sounds as if the guy was not just a jerk, but also he had a bit of cruelty in him.
Jayster
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My younger sister had two girlfriends in High School. One of them was knock out gorgeous. One day that knock out gorgeous female was with me in tears because some guy has said her nose was too big. Therefore I looked at her. Her nose was big! She was still knock out gorgeous, however.
I was sad that some guy had given her an invitation to feel less than beautiful.
Jayster
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@anon80629714, like half the guys here, and even some girls, have admitted to finding you very cute. Don’t let one insult become more important than hundreds of compliments.
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I don’t judge people by their appearance.
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Not really any more these days… have a long history of feeling insecure about it.
My mom want some cute innocent dweeby boys… and so they were formed and I was one of them.
Except I was pissed off the whole time cause that wasn’t me. I prefer sharp and edgy… Minimalism.
So now here at the ripe old age of borderline 28 I’ve found appropriate attire for most instances. The women seem to have responded appropriately.
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@Azley many prefer to stay away from women.
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“Do you feel self conscious about your looks?” if it’s illegal, then yes.
my jeans had big hole, for a while. hadn’t noticed. and I used to not wear boxers.
could’ve been apprehended.
another time, fly was open. I went to Keyfood and back without noticing.
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I worry about that as well. I fear my fly being down and the button on my boxers being loose. You could get arrested.
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You seem rather insistent to protrude that perspective. Too each their own.
I however, am on to go and fancy them.
Like spritely insanoids and all their foulness. Reminds me of myself before the fall of my onset.
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You are free to fancy them, I oppose stigma and dogma,
you are free to fancy women and have sex all you like, I am against stigma and dogma,
of course men who fancy women, unlike for example gays, impotents, asexuals,transgenders
appear to be more mainstream and thus less need my protection.
@Azley