I’m tired of feeling ugly

And worthless

I just wish I knew how to be a more desirable person

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I feel ugly all the time

However then I realized being ugly is the only way to unlock my phone

So it’s pretty useful!

(Looks are subjective though, important to keep that in mind)

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Grookey, dear, you are awesome hon!!! :smiling_face::hugs::hugs:
You are pretty, dont worry pls :slightly_smiling_face::slightly_smiling_face:
I myself am not a beaty, but i like some features of mine, thats enough… But you have such a sweet face etc, looks are not very important in real.life you know, dont get in the matrix, i was there too :wink::grinning::grinning:
Me, i wish id stopped suffering, for feeling prettier, i count to play with my clothes, just being more creative and its ok…
Plus many are way more touched by a good soul or a precioys heart, this matters maybe more than looks :love_letter::heart_eyes_cat::heart_eyes_cat:
But really, you are not igly, idk from where you get this, you have pretty eyes too etc, dont beat yourself down… :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:
Hugs, take care!!

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You are not ugly!

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I’m sorry you feel that way. I don’t think you’re ugly at all.

Looks are kinda subjective anyways.

I joke a lot on here about how I’m a “sexy beast,” but I can have a fragile ego too.

It’s hard to stay confident in my city, which is a total sausage fest.

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I appreciate the kind words

Just hard to believe I’m attractive or wanted

Grew up people asking me out as a joke

And had a few friends ditch me for being too fat

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Yeah, screw those people. They’re obviously fake af.

Keep on rockin with those cool Queer/punk vibes!

:sunglasses:

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I don’t care about my looks much even when i look in the mirror its like its not even me

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You are not at all ugly @Moon

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Comes down to what you compare with. People on tv? That’s not representitive at all. Maybe 5% of people look like actors or people that show off on reality shows.

There was a time when I compared this way because I looked a lot on tv, and I was young. I thought what I saw was how things were supposed to be. But it’s not ofcourse. Just had to really open my eyes in the real world to see that. Now that I’m older and wiser I don’t think like that at all. My body is ok to me although I’ll never be a model, and I don’t mind at all.

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It was horrible growing up for me too. My friends were jerks. I ditched them when I became an adult. One guy used to beat me up just for fun. Fu-ck. They told me I was fat, ugly and stuff like that.

You are definitely not ugly nor fat. Words hurt and things we hear in our childhood gets ingrained in our minds. Try to let it go!

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why do you feel this way?

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Sorry you feel this way. With the onset of sz and sticking to medicine, i also feel this way. Hair loss and weight gain, both normal issues but possibly pronounced due to meds

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I’m reading your replies just not sure what to say :disappointed:

I got fat too. Still got my hair though. Just carrying around some front-loaded marmalade.

I try to focus on it less and less, seems like only kids in their twenties care about looks, and the “handsome” look that most young men shoot for is kind of this baby faced feminine quality that to me seems like something a prisoner or gang member would scoff at as a “pretty boy.” So some of what I think makes me unattractive could rather be perceived positively as ruggedness.

It’s all about doing what you can with what you have and making your appearance your own regardless I think.

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One. you are very good looking.
Two. Appreciate the way you look everyday cause, eventually you will be my age. I look back and now think why was I always so self deprecating about my looks when I looked just fine.

And honestly we all get older and in the future I’m gonna look back at now and think how young I am now.

  1. You have such good style. You look great i wish you can see it. I love your selfies.
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You’re very pretty. Some ppl who ask u out for a joke are pure jerks. I know it’s hard, but try not to take them seriously.

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Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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