Death and Sexuality

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Can any of you relate to that concept? I can. I think it’s fear of consequences.

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Consequences of what?

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One word: Mystery

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The consequences of having sex. A whole lot of guilt and punishment if not pregnancy.

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? death and sexuality how do you combine those two, having sex with the dead. thats what i think.

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There are no physical consequences if you’re safe and practical with it, do you mean emotional consequences ?

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I mean having sex with the hope to die, @spiderpig and @oe1489

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o okay i gotcha

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Eros and death in Freud

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I had a girl tell me she would rather die than go out with me.

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I answered,”I don’t understand. What are you trying to say?”

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That you were so charismatic that death was her only escape from you. Your win, @77nick77

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I don’t understand. Having sex with the hope to die?

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Yes, for those of us who are ignorant and full of fear.

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Yea I decided no more sex for me. It is a waste of my precious time.

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But if I had sex like say tomorrow , I personally would not say I’d hope to die. Very unusual wording to me. Even though yes I’d be full of discomfort at the prospect of sex.

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But why would you allow it if you didn’t want to?

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The death is an unwanted side effect to the sex. Sometimes you want intimacy and being wanted so much that you go to that extreme.

I mean that’s if I were to have sex tomorrow

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I’m afraid I never trusted men enough to want intimacy with one.

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In what way did you not trust men enough?

For me it has become a matter of fear that a man would not willingly want to be with me for the rest of my life anyway. And worse still, in terms of stress and fear, end up with someone I know instead. A fear of being used maybe unintentionally, sexually and emotionally as a stepping stone. Sex is precious to me and so I could not cope with that idea. So I just decide to have no partner. The man may not ever do that, but I fear it due to my belief that I’m maybe sexually and emotionally not as fulfilling compared to others for the guy. It’s like I’m either the best for him and I know it, or it is a flat out no thanks.

Sorry for rant

Guy of course has the freedom to do as he chooses and so do I to give up on partnership.