Your husband kinda reminds me of a friend I have. My friend just can’t stay away from shitty people. He’s always doing hard drugs, then he flips out and goes to the hospital.
Some people just can’t grasp that having no friends, or only a few friends, is way better than hanging out with shitty people.
I think you need to tell your husband what’s up. Set some boundaries.
Tell your husband how you feel about the guy, and always have an excuse why you’re busy. I’m sure he’ll get the hint after a while, and it’s less of a shitstorm
I’ve been thinking about this on and off all day. Thoughts…
This guy may be your husband’s friend, but you are still your husband’s best friend, period. He needs to respect the commitment he made to you, hear you out, and respect your feelings.
If he does hang with his friend, you are within your rights to ask him to do it outside of your home. You have MI issues and don’t need this kind of invasion of your safe space.
If your husband gets blitzed/wasted while hanging out with d00d, he needs to not come home in that state as there’s no better way to start a good fight. This will preserve your marriage.
I dunno. Could be talking out my arse here, but that’s what came to mind.
Sounds like bad news! Bad friends can litteraly ruin your life so be careful.
Im trying to join this group chat online and the owner goes off after every time i contribute to the chat.
I guess i should leave them alone.
I dont do drugs or drink or party but something about makes men angry, its really sad.
Dear @anon72545146, its very delicate for me, but i tell you, i divorced my exwife because she picked my “bad influence” friends for me. I felt caged up. But maybe the “bad influence” friends caused the divorced. You need to be clever.