I am a peace loving kind of person usually but when someone never stops with ignorant comments some sexual (I’ve made it clear to him I’m absolutely repulsed at those kinds of things) and he sees me practically falling over trying to lug out the slow cooker and sits there laughing at my difficulties. He’s married but staying here occasionally because his dad is in the hospital near me. He lives over an hour away.
What do I do? I feel like calling his wife and tell her all the sick things he says. Ì don’t want him here
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Based on what you’ve told us about him, i’d throw him out.
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I’m sorry to hear about that. Wish I had some good advice
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Throw him out. Tell his wife. Do what you want. You have no obligation to put up with any of it.
It’s fine to take care of yourself first and it’s fine to tell his wife even if it is partly out of spite. His wife maybe already knows. Maybe she will get angry. Or maybe it helps her to know she’s not the only one who gets treated like that.
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You sure let a lot of people stay in your home. I’m concerned you’re being taken advantage of.
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Take it or dump him.
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I’m a bleeding heart. It hasn’t done well for me
Sounds like you need to get a little more in touch with your angry feelings.
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He is/was one of my best friends. Now I just feel kind of used.
Have you tried confronting him / talking with him about it?
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I’m so afraid of conflict.
Maybe you could try to do a gentle talk? If he’s been one of your best friends, it seems a waste to just let this ruin it without at least bringing it up with him first. At the very least, you could get some closure.
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It’s okay to have your druthers but people don’t know what they are unless you tell them. You gotta let him know he’s an ass. Be direct, more than once, some people are thick. Or if there’s no way it can be fixed just tell him he’s got to go, an hour isn’t that long of a way and if his dad’s in the hospital the he should be there and not your house anyway, right? Why should he be comfortable while you’re miserable?
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