yesterday i spent my 20 on a present for my mother in law’s nephew. my partner and mother in law said they will buy the super worms and now my mother in law just called and told my partner’s little sister to get ready and they will leave me here with her nieces and nephew since their parents took off. i’m not sure how i feel about that. its bad enough that i have to take care of her brother’s family’s dog because they are too lazy to deal with it.
the house is still pending but its looking like me might not get it because my partner’s mom said they need our help here.
This might sound weird and idk what age those kids are but you could learn some valuable skills looking after kids lol,
I love spending time with my friends daughter who is 4 even though she can be a pain in the butt sometimes i just like to try and make her laugh and have fun with her,
Think of it as a learning experience lol, or practice if you ever think about having children with your wife,
And regards to the house, is it your wife that wants you all to take care of her parents atm or do you both want to leave?
I left home and my mum has a disability, she gets plenty of help anyway and is able to cope on her own just now, if she needs even more care then care people will help her make meals etc if she is unable.
i’m just trying to say that there are other care people who can help them if you and your wife were not around and you could still visit and help in your own time.
she doesn’t want to leave because her mom can’t handle everything and always ask us for help. i have cleaned their bathroom three times this week. because her nephews pee all over the bathroom floor and spit on the wall under the mirror when they brush their teeth. their parents don’t do anything for them. yesterday my partner and i spent 44 dollars on their 13 year old’s birthday present. my mother in law was going to pay me back but i told her just buy worms for the the bearded dragons
sounds like your wife is in charge then i guess, she works and expects you to work by looking after her parents, idk maybe i am reading it wrong, sounds like you really love her though
yeah i kind of feel that way. but hopefully when the in laws’s guests leave they might not need us as much. i love my partner and she was all for moving but at the same time she is afraid to leave her mom because of the neck, hip and shoulder problems. my case manager said i need to assert myself with my partner’s parents.
My mother in law is a touchy subject for my partner. Her care isn’t too complicated just has a lot of problems moving around some days worse than others. She was in a car accident and it caused severe damage to her neck, back and hip.
They took me after all. But I didn’t have to pay for feeders. I just had to pay for three chew treats for the shih Tzu (who is my favorite of the dogs) and water conditioner/ stress coat for prince the betta.
i’ll be getting some fish soon hopefully, my tank is looking good and the plants inside look healthy, i’ll just test the water first then i’ll get some fish
