Are you happy with the person you have become

So glad I found this forum

Not all veterans qualify.

I’ll never be happy with who I am until I’ve reached a point in my life where I can see my life being as close to normal as possible.

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You have to be psychiatrically disabled. And you have to be found to be newly psychiatrically disabled WHILE SERVING in the military in order to qualify.

You could be waiting forever. Practice acceptance NOW.

Not at all. I discovered a little late in life that we are what we do and have done but, I, at the very least, keep a positive outlook on life because I really don’t think it will ever end only because it is going to take forever for me to really grasp and put into practice those disciplines needed for a healthy physical and mental maintenance.

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talking from the point of being glad of the person I became from living and loving a schizophrenic person… having informed myself about the sickness and working on myself in regard to patience, determination, follow through, empathy …yes… I am glad to love my schizophrenic loved one…it changed me for the better and experiencing all these changes made me stronger and having more self worth…what more can a human …provide…unconditional love is what it takes to be at peace and being able to overcome unforeseen hurdles to master…

having learned from reading various topics on this page and also having good contact with our psychiatrist and having a loved one who understands and has accepted his sickness and following all rules also makes it easier to deal with his shortcomings…( I do not want to call shortcomings…prefer the term of adjustment on both parts… fitting better) and hence offers a positive attitude and having mastered such is easier to deal with unforseen demons at times…

Bare with my clumsy way of expressing…english is not my first language…main thing i want to get across ideas, experiences etc…to help whoever lends an ear.

Having said all this…looking forward to share with me whatever is on your mind as it helps every one and believe me we all need such to grow and feel complete and at ease…

Thanks for listening…

P.s. living in a small village in Austria and having no possibility to join a support group I very much rely on all of your advices, sharing experiences etc…and want to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for having opened self and shared…together we can be strong and lend support to each other to ease struggles at times we all come across. …

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