I consider myself a loser.
I was not like this. I changed so much. I was a wild spirit 
brave, fun to be around, full of passion.
I feel like I am a weak vegetable.
Are you a loser?
You are a Beautiful person @mermaid1.
You are far from being a loser!
Donāt say this about yourself.
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Sometimes I feel that way, and I am sure that a lot of people count me as a loser. I donāt worry about it too much. The game is not up yet.
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You donāt come across as a loser to me either. Considering you have a mental illness youāre winning big time. Youāre doing better than most normies.
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Youāre not a loser.
I think youāre really funny/nice/ and cool.
I donāt consider myself a loser, no.
Iām a winner! And we ALL are!
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Yes, Iām a loser.
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Youāre not a loser either. Youāre a fighter.
Loser/winner is all relative.
Those who classify āothersā as losers, are the real losers.
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what do mean by loser? yes some win and lose in life so yes I won some battles and some I lost.ectā¦ I personal would rather chat and mix with a loser my choice, because I know how it feels to loseā¦ soā¦winners and losers? id rather talk to losers, there would be more vibeā¦because I lost too in areas of my life
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Iām a loser, but I donāt mind. I donāt like most people anyways so itās okay.
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pessimistic or optimistic ā¦I choose optimistic forever
ok can any millionaire be a loserā¦?
money talks like
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You are real to me. This winner/loser sh-t is a pile of crap as far as I am concerned.
The so called losers have the biggest hearts !!!
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Yo selene youāre alright.
I sort of feel like a loser at times so I can see where you are coming from.
However on more superficial levels Iām doing better than most of the independent and unwed individuals I know. I work and pay to live on my own. I got all the toys I could ever want. Still waiting on the xbox one xā¦ but that is something Iāll be patient for.
When Iām really contemplating why I have psychosis in the face of everyone else and me being stuck in a delusional state I really just think itās cause Iām a winner. I feel like a winner most of the time and I fight to maintain that and Iāve found the means of doing so without being dependent on anyone. The true winnerās castle wonāt be taken by anyone elseās actions.
That said Iām still not where I want to be. I need a degree and more routine job. Not that I mind delivery driving. Thank god thatās a thing. Iām good at that ā ā ā ā . Most drivers get squeemish at having 3 deliveries on a runā¦ Iāve been known to take routes of 4+ deliveries back to back for hours on end. Iām very much capable of stepping and being a one man delivery serviceā¦ I get caught up fantasizing about it at times.
Last month I was tied for lead in total number of deliveries and earned the āPriveledgedā medal for having the most routes(multi-order deliveries). Again my bosses have fallen in love with me even going so far as to tell my mom about it. Hahā¦
This is taking it too far for my taste, but I get some hella strange compliments that really force me into egotistical thinking. I was talking to a new friend and at one point he took a step back and said āMan I really think you just come from a different plane of human existence.ā He also said after I was spouting aobut insecurities regarding others āNo I think youāre jsut a nice person, I actually thought you were the only normal one here.ā
Itās hearing ā ā ā ā like that that really reminds me that human potential is still good. Being humble enough to just give a compliment generously without second intentā¦ It had no impact on the speaker. Very strangeā¦ most of my friends fall short of ever complimenting anyone.
Youāre not a loser @mermaid1ā¦ I think youāre splendid. You probably just need to spend more time outdoors.
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Are you going through a med change @LED?
First you hate pets now itās people.
You were never like this before.
And No you are not a loser!
Iām having a sort of bad day today but probably better I donāt call myself or others negative names. Itās just a bad day. Doing the best I can with what I deal with at any given point in time.
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Iām on disability allowance, I live with my parents at 28, I am unmarried woman, I feel like I cannot āhackā the professions, what do you suppose?
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I am, but, sadly, Iāve always been like this.
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Also, I qualified with most because I do like some people. And I tend to err on the side of liking someone until they do or say something to put me off, then itās kind of black and white with my friendships. But this forum is a little different for me in how I respond to people vs real life. Iām more empathetic here.
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Iāve come across your posts a number of times and they are good-hearted. Donāt be too down on yourself because you donāt fulfill some perfect ideal of yourself, keep the ideal realistic and you will feel better.
People mellow as they age, so donāt worry about a lack of passion, either.
Also, if you feel weak, you can probably exercise, like with P90X or somesuch, a full body workout is as close to the fountain of youth as most people have access to.
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Not Iām not a loser, Iām a heroes
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