Do u consider yourself a loser

Do u love or hate yourself…

Do u think u are a loser

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I think I’m a loser in life.

Like I’m not meant to have fun or be happy

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I used to think I was a loser especially when I was depressed. But now I don’t thnk this kind of idea or thinking has any value to the life of us Schizophrenics. Such kind of thinking doesn’t mean you are genuine but means you tend to harm yourself with negative thinking. So stop thinking this way and just treasure what you have such as the time and energy inorder to do something positive.

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It’s so hard to think positive though

I don’t feel like a loser. I feel like a failure in life. I’ve failed at literally everything I’ve ever tried to do in life. One of my past nurses told me that was because of my sza. What a bummer. I guess I can never succeed. I take comfort in the knowledge that G-d still loves me.

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I honestly think I’m a loser.

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It’s so damn hard to think I’m cool and great.

I get these moments where I think I’m great and then boom I’m back to square one feeling like a loser

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I’m pretty awesome.

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I’m the same. Feel as if I have failed. Though I have succeeded at some things like for over 0 years Isupportedmy family on my freelance writing and have had one novel published by a small press

But other writers I know have houses and care and have more than one book done. 8 can’t seem to string words together outside of forum posts.

Maybe I have failed as an ego
But I succeeded as Self

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I love myself for the things I manage to do every day. I manage to wake up 5am everyday and go to work.I manage to make time for my friends and girlfriend every day and cook and clean by myself. Even though I dont have any family close by (they like 900 km away from me), I still take good care of myself on a daily bases.

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I like myself.
But at the same time, I feel like I should have accomplished more by now.
I have a sister who is 2 years younger than me, she’s in uni and has a job, and a boyfriend, a house, and two cats.

Compared to her, I’m kind of a loser.
All I’ve got on her is I’m better at spelling and I know more about mental illnesses.

Comparing to others is no good and will only het you down.

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I was called a loser often enough in school to definitely make me feel like one. Yeah I feel like a loser and a failure. I’m still living with my parents and on SSI at the age of 28. Even if everything goes according to plan and I graduate and start my job in ten months I’ll be starting at the age of 29 when everyone else did it at 22. I’ve only had one boyfriend for 3 months and friendship has always been hard for me. I joined a club on campus and made some friends there but I don’t even hang out with them off campus.

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We are all struggling, but none of us are losers. This is a very difficult disease. What we accomplish by making it to the next day outweighs people getting jobs, houses, partners, etc. What we do is hard.

Normal people would ■■■■ themselves trying to do what we do.

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I’m kind of a loser. No friends, no job, little money, no girlfriend, no social life, nothing. Just the same stuff every day. Definitely the traits of a “loser”

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Pretty much a loser.

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If any of us are losers, it’s not because we are sz. That alone doesn’t qualify anyone as a loser. I think as long as we are trying in life and putting our best foot forward, we’re not losers. We are dealing with something really difficult and have to cut ourselves some slack. Most people couldn’t handle an average day as a sz.

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loser loser loser loser…

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no. After years of trying I feel like I" m winning with the hand I’m dealt. Winning over people with the typical goods.

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Some times I wonder why do i go through this. It bothers me because i mean well. And i see the worst people get ahead in life. It saddens me to wonder what is the point of my suffering. But i don’t think i’m losing. Maybe naturally. I believe i’m better off than most people spiritually. I was born knowing God. So if i have to go through this to have eternal life. Then so be it. “id rather have 100 years of pain and gain eternal life. Than to gain the whole whole for 1000 years and lose my soul.”

So it’s because of this why I don’t consider myself a loser outright. Loser short term. Winner long term.The symptoms don’t even bother me half the time. It’s misunderstanding from people. I don’t want to be this way. I want to make my family proud. It’s like i have no chips in my corner but have a heart of gold. I’ll link a song in the song section. briit nicole - gold.

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